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Urchinfish

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When booking/meeting SWers do you identify yourself as a SF forum user, and who you are in the forum?

I’ve seen a few posts from SWers who seem to know who some punters are in this forum, so I was just curious if you introduce yourself as “Hi, I’m XYZ from SexForum, watch out for my review” 😂

I’m not sure if I would identify myself as a forum user as I’d like to remain anonymous and don’t want the SWers to link me to my reviews.

Just a thought.
 
If you post you saw X late last night. We did it in 5 different positions including anal. I gave a $20 tip.
Unless she had 4 guys doing that she is going to know who you are. :)
I'm more of a, I saw X last week, keep it a bit vague on time.
 
I can't see any good reason to, as it has the strong potential to come across as a veiled threat. Few years back I mentioned having read positive AF reviews to Heer after finishing up and getting redressed and she didn't take it particularly well, though I certainly had no complaints about that encounter.

I'm not deranged enough to think that women I'm buying sex from are doing it for the love of it, but to the extent that you're having a good vibe going on to any degree, I doubt that any attempts to make sure you don't give a bad review are going to outweigh the weirdness. Maybe save it for a parting machine translated text message after you've paid a random Chinese overstayer for FS before being told 'dick too big, no sex' (or just avoid that situation entirely).
 
I always introduce myself by my real name and say as much. Although this has occasionally come back to bite me in the past, it often induces a reciprocal candour. Sometimes it’s a real name (possibly), a university course, other job, future plans, etc. But most often it’s a real age, a confession I never know how to respond to. “Sorry, I’m actually 34, not 26” (oh my god, you’re merely three decades younger than me, do I get a partial refund?). Or worse, “I just turned 18 four months ago”, the year of birth provided as absolute proof, as that feat of mathematical gymnastics would be impossible to fake. (Fuck, please indulge and old man and pretend you’re older).

What I haven’t done yet is return to see someone who might possibly, and in some cases definitely, know me as doak and all that entails. I will do so with much trepidation.
 
I don't think you would need to introduce yourself Doak as they will all know who you are anyway. All the working girls have heard about the supposedly old rich guy that doesn't look like he's rich. Who supposedly makes over $100,000 a week yet never tips or pays for extras. And they are told if an old guy starts talking about his high stake poker stories within the first 10 minutes of the booking its you. No hate, just letting you know word gets around. :ROFLMAO:
 
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I have told some SWers that I post on here but I don't normally mention it until later in the session but usually only if there was some thing online I wanted to bring up. I don't normally say what name I post under but they can probably figure it out if they read posts here. That means others at the same agency might know who I am too.
Any reviews I do on here I'm happy for the girls to see. In fact I send reviews into the agency themselves to put on their girl's profiles and will continue to do so. I told one of them my review I did for her for her profile, and she said "Oh that was you? It make me laugh." (y)
The only one active on here who I've met is Sahara. And she knew I was coming to see her. Will go back again soon.
 
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Thanks, Johnny, for confirming that Debonair girls gossip about their clients, not only with each other, but with other clients. Must be part of a new policy. This is now clear because my last dozen or so punts have been at La Belle, and the best place in town, Sensual Relax. In each case, I indulged in extras and added $50 to the modest asking price (still cheaper than Debs) or just tipped each girl in a training double.

Although I'm not really one for extras. I go to SMs as a distraction before “work” to have something done to me rather than being an active participant, and to see a new face. Apart from a BJ (but covered? what’s the point?), everything else on offer is something I do in private life for the lady’s benefit; the thrill to me of these has paled since I reached adulthood. I see them as a tip, and to be honest, giving monetary value to dirty stuff is rather pleasing to me.

But the extra inflation at Debs over the last couple of years is just ridiculous. At least 3x. (Or does my wealthier-than-Elon-Musk act make me a tempting mark?) I got fed up when I paid $200 for something I didn’t want in the first place, which lasted less than two minutes. It doesn’t matter how rich you are, you still feel like a schmuck.

At SR, the receptionist hands you the girl's tip menu on entering the room. You get to check out in private what she does, marvel at the modest prices (Debs circa 2021), and feel like the man when you pay double and still not feel ripped off.

I didn’t know there was a dress code at Debonair. I’m not a fussy dresser at the best of times, I didn't own any clothes until I was 17 – first up, best dressed. When I punt, it is part of my pre-game exercise regimen. I walk ten Ks or so (from Herne Bay to Mt Eden and back); I’m not exactly wearing a jacket and tie.

And lastly, just to add to the tedium of this post: some facts. Yes, I’m the type of bore who records my punts - so hot off the spreadsheet.

Since December 2021, I’ve visited Debs 147 times for booking costs of $25,340. On 138 of those occasions, 91% I had extras for a cost of $17,250. So, 9 ladies appear to have harboured some resentment. They pretty much self-identify as those who always seem available when the girl you really want is fully booked. In the room, you find out why, and you don’t feel like rewarding them.

So, thanks again, Johnny, for the heads-up and for helping me with my Debonair budget for the next five years – booking costs $0, extras $0.
 
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I never said it was the Debonairs girls that said anything. From my understanding it is quite a few girls from a range of different agencies. You have been to Debs 147 time? Wow that's real impressive that is almost once a week over that time. What a big spender you are... you have spent almost half of supposedly one week's worth of your earnings on massages and extras at Debs the past 3 and a half years. Give yourself a pat on the back.

In regards to Sensual Relax, I still haven't been but plan to check it out one of these days. Interesting to know about the tip menu, I look forward to experiencing that some time soon. Prices appear to be the same as Deb's although can't speak to the extras. Both Debs and SR are cheaper than Perfect Touch which is the more upmarket agency.
 
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I wasn’t trying to impress you with the number of punts (you’re the undisputed king on that count), but rather I was pointing out that in only 9 of those punts did I neither pay for an extra, nor tip. So, your comment, “yet never tips or pays for extras”, seems wide of the mark. Apart from Debs, the only other places I’ve been in the last five years are LB and SR, and that was this year, and I know I’ve paid for extras or tipped on each occasion. And there’s little dicks conformation jibe – “girls wish you would pay for an extra and tip every once in a while” and I know he’s a big Debs guy (when he’s not trying his luck with hardly consenting drunk girls in his filthy camper van). So I know where this shit comes from.

The tip menus are one of the nice touches at SR. Seeing naughty stuff spelt out in beautiful calligraphy is a turn-on. (Although I don’t remember seeing the exotic stuff, you’re into it). The tables are also great. Large with glory/milking holes (whatever), so the sexy stuff starts right away and is not reserved for the second half. I was hugely pleased when I saw in the mirror a long stallion-like appendage appearing from under the table, and realised it was me. Gravity working in my favour for once!

As for my patter. You can mock it (and clearly a few non-tipped Debs girls are unimpressed), but it works for me. I mostly see new girls, so I feel the need to sell myself. In the back of my mind, I know that almost all SM girls either have tried or have thought about sugaring. And if the horror of my ancient naked body is not too repellent, everything else I’ve said makes me a likely candidate. Roughly a quarter of all the girls I’ve seen over the years punting have given me a phone number, swapped socials or have simply walked out of the room with me. So I’m not a joke to everyone. These indulgences are what cost me the big bucks.

And then there’s the one with the intoxicating accent, whom I’ve thought I’ve had on the hook many times over the years, but never quite managed to reel in.

Little dick’s rebuttal to follow…
 
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