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Upsetting experience with a client from sexfourm

Upsetting experience with a client from sexfourm
Im so sorry this happened to you Malibu. These situations can be extremely scary :cry:. I hope you have some good support around you sweets šŸ©·.

Since we have no control over the reviews that go up about us, fairness would say in these instances we should be able to 'name and shame' these fuckers! Even though they get to hide behind anon screen names, I would like to think the community would have a thing or two to say to them about their behaviour.

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This is not the answer. I have been assaulted by more white guys than I have Indian men. And Malibu herself keeps saying she doesn't wish to single out any one group. It also puts the onus on her to amend her booking process's instead of expecting the men not to behave like fucking animals!
 
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We all operate in a environment when it comes to sex work where consent is key and paramount.

Those who violate it need to be called out at the very minimum, and when warranted, reported.

I really really hope there is some sex worker network behind the scenes where you unite and let other sex workers know what happened and provide numbers for them to block in advance.
 
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I'm sorry this has happened to you but I don't think you should blame the whole community here for the actions of one member. That is essentially the same as blaming all Indian clients for what one guy did to you - which you said you are not doing.

I would advise any sex worker who has a client who tries to blackmail them with bad feedback to not comply and to end the booking. And the thing about free speech, which we value greatly on this forum, is that it means you are also able to tell your of the story and respond to a negative review - which many sex workers have done. A lot of us on here can discern between a fake review and a real one or when something doesn't add up.
 
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Thanks I appreciate yr input, I wasnā€™t blaming the whole community I was saying Iā€™m not sure if I actively want to be apart of it if that sort of behaviour is normalised in this community etc .
I wasnā€™ta bit shocked by the booking an the comments made to me by the client etc
I also did not blame all Indian clients some of my nicest clients are Indian
I guess there is just miscommunication when writing on a forum.
I do agree with yr reply however I also believe the forum needs rules a regulations to protect escorts a clients . Especially if girls are going to be advertising here.
 
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I'm also a kiwi born indian, while i agree with this, theres a big and important distiction between a westernised indian and a non westernised indian (immigrant indian).
Westernised Indians (espeically kiwi born ones or those who have lived in nz for a long time) shouldnt be judged upon a certain set of indians (immigrants), making us all look bad imp. A westernised indian is much less likely to engage in shitty behaviour, whereas an immigrant is more likely. More likely is not definitive though theres good indians out there as well, just the chances of encountering a shitty customer increases.
 
Weā€™ve recently been made aware of a very concerning report from the OP about a client who booked her through our platform. While we are not responsible for what happens outside of our platform, we want to make it clear that behaviour such as assault, threats, or any form of non-consensual activity is unacceptable.

The OP has requested to remove herself from our community as she does not feel safe anymore. We respect her decision and want to take this moment to emphasise to all users the importance of being respectful and helping us keep this a safe space for everyone.

Please also remember that users on this forum are not vetted, so exercise with caution. Your safety and well-being must always come first.
 
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Regardless if this stupid punter was from sexforum or not, it's just who he is he would of acted like an idiot regardless. Now she's left feeling unsafe this just made other SWs feeling unsafe also in this community. This is a risky industry for SWs so independent workers be really careful. This idiot has most likely treated other SWs like this before and continue to the next.

Be safe everyone - SW and good Punters.
 
Very sad to hear and probably should have been an addressal to legal authorities. But I am appalled by behaviour of members here when she repeatedly is saying she is NOT singling out a nationality. Some of you have tiny brain which is waiting to feel superior by generalizing a race or nationality. Including some ignorant "Kiwi born Indian ( mate likes of you spend entire life trying to please both communities but neither care šŸ˜„) " who have no clue that India and other Asia is way ahead to us in many ways, including sexual trends. Stuck in their era, probably to help superior complex šŸ˜„. Probably your software hasnt been updated šŸ˜„. Also many of us do not realise as one of the members pointed, be sure what you post :). It will take less than 48 hours to track IP addresses on a serious complain of racial or sexual abuse and probably bring entire @SexForum to front door legally as well. The assholery of internet anonymity is no more mate but again you might be unaware of cyber laws as well, stuck in your era šŸ˜„. Be aware and vary. Thank you others who are aware, who tried to bring support to Malibu who should not be afraid of any reviews as she can always openly share her side as well. It was sad to see her go, she was good vibe.
 
To be blunt it still is pretty hard to track down people on the internet. Especially with all the VPNs and burner sim cards these days. I'm not sure the Police would go to much efforts unless it was something serious.

There is always some risk with sex work and chances are you are going to deal with bad clients whether they are affliated with this forum or not.
 
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Mate, everyone can be tracked ( lets not get into why I know this šŸ™‚ ). None of these imbeciles are using burner phones or VPNs. And what is being spoken here, if collated, has been crossed over to serious offence, some time back. If I really get into it, I will not be waiting for police to do anything, but send a legal notice and out them. Their wives will do the rest šŸ˜€. Or a recon on this website and they will find the rest. Internet bullying, abuse and anonymous vengeance is a serious offence, if someone is willing to dent it šŸ™‚. And I agree to you, sex work is like any other business it will have fair share of bad clients. It is unlawful but so is SWs charging money in cash. If a tax audit done on SWs, they might be one of the profession which earns huge, exploits our tax resources and gives back nothing. Except back shots šŸ˜€. So all the sympathy here is one sided, racial and simply doesnt make sense. Yes safety of any sex worker is paramount and noone should go through abuse, but for we know, it can be one of these deranged racists, trying to cover tracks here
 
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