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can’t cum with wg’s

I have that issue sometimes when there's time pressure. I've got ten mins left. Oh shit. Gotta cum. But nope 😖 trying to rush it only exacerbates the problem.

Learning to time things a little better these days.

Must try the celery trick. 😃
 
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My experience is similar to EzyRiders. I would add the following to his bullet points and a couple of other comments.
1. Yes, and if I pass the moment it is usually lost. Not always, but more often than not.
2. Yes again, especially if I think she might be close and I want her to orgasm as well. Of course I am gauging this off her body movements, sounds and other physiological signs. I might be wrong. But as in 1 above, if I hold off then it is very hard to get it back.
3. Yes also again, and also maybe later on when we might have moved to a HJ and I am getting close and she keeps urging me to 'cum for me baby, cum for me baby'. I find this to be distracting.

Being a little older some of the sensation is diminished downstairs. This is exacerbated by wearing protection which dulls the sensation further. As a consequence we more often than not need to revert to a hj where the condom is obviously removed. At this point it becomes as much a mind game, and for me I prefer silence as opposed to 'please cum for me baby'.
 
Agree with Ezy and Fully completely except if I’ve held on too long, nothing will work bj hj whatevs. But I don’t stress as doesn’t happen often and I still have a great time especially with all the mini O’s I get along the way and it means i still have all the pent up chi ready to go at the next opportunity which is usually as soon as I’m free again for the next punt. When I was younger it was all about the destination now it’s more the journey. Anyway most times it’s a great journey ending with a ridiculously huge O that makes me wonder whether one day you’ll read about me dying with a smile deep up some SW. Not a bad way to go except don’t think wifey will enjoy that at all 😱
 
Also who cares about them orgasming it’s all about us🤣 if they cum then thats just a bonus, if not then prime the piston for another round of pumpin
 
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Couple of points bro. Firstly I suspect, if I’m at all typical and I may not be, that for many over 40s punters more so over 50s, that we are a one O per sesh deal. I used to cum 2-3x but no more. So I need to edge to enjoy a long sesh or it’s a quick bang and long massage which isn’t ideal imo at the $$$ paid. You’re a young buck so totally get your approach. I was there too. Secondly, and this took me years to discover, edging for 30-40mins not only ensures value for money 😂 but the O you end up with is far far more powerful than just letting it go early on.
 
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I'm with you Banana, I am majorly turned on by gazing into their eyes and watching the changes in their body as they build to orgasm during pussy play/fingering/fisting. You make a good point about "somewhat acting" but even for an expert provider it's hard to act, sweating, secreting pussy juices, trembling etc.
 
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Fuck yeah, I am with you too (may be not the fisting part lol) , and for the majority of times I've seen SWs cum, besides the body physical reactions most girls would actually embrace me holding me closer, kiss me passionately saying they enjoyed it etc. Mate, if that was all just an act they deserve an Oscar and every single penny I've paid.

And on the rare occasions where me and the SW cum together it was heaven on earth 🫠 Again could be some acting involved but if it is that real I don't give a shit.
 
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