Be careful bro... Been there, done that. Didnt end well for me. Maybe your wife is different.
Theres a good chance your wifes post punt processing will be different to yours.
Take her to a strip club first and test the waters, see how she reacts to that world.
Or alternatively get a couples sensual massage lol. It could definitely end badly, the wife can get jealous and end the marriage or alternatively decide she is a lesbian and end the marriage