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Couples massage

Sirbangalot

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Looking at taking the Mrs for a sensual massage ,not after full service or anything over the top, just curious what kind of experience she can actually expect.

She’s pretty open-minded, we’ve done strip clubs before ,but this would be a new one for us.

Question
1-Do they actually touch her down there?
2-Does she get hand relief or is it more of a tease?
3-Do most places even offer that kind of finish for women, or is it just a soft rub and oil show?



She’s leaning more towards a female therapist, which I’m all for. Just not sure if it’s best to do:

4-Couples massage with two therapists, one for each of us? Probably this option….
Or
5- Just go with one female therapist for both, focusing more on her?



Anyone taken their partner and seen her get properly worked up or even finished? Keen to hear how far it can go and what’s realistic in these sessions. Not trying to overthink it, just want her to enjoy the ride.

Cheers in advance for any advice or recommendations
 
I'd probably recommend doing the couples doubles massage with one therapist for each of you, and in the same room. So 4 people in the same room. That way she can see if she likes the ladies... more than just how they look. And also to see how she feels about a lady touching you. As jealously can be a major thing with threesomes and I know a few couples that have broken up after just one threesome including a marriage lol.

Not all the female therapists finish ladies off (touch them down there and make them orgasm). But most are open to massaging them with out relief. You would be better off just going on a SM website like Debonairs, Perfect Touch, Total Body Bliss etc and viewing the profiles. Maybe you can each pick a girl you like.

It's really up to her what she wants with the massage, they will kind of do what she wants. And she can probably get extras. Some of them might be open to doing oral on her and recieving oral from her. I'm not really sure how it works for women with extras with options and pricing as their profiles are more tailored for male clients. You'd probably be better off hitting up the mangeresses at those places.

Maybe @Lady_Lilly who is a manager at Debonairs can give you more advice.
 
I have done with one masseuse and have just booked it again with two ladies, like what johnny said, 4 people makes much more sense, both of you would be getting the same amount of attention plus, you will have 3 ladies around you (who wouldn want that)?
We had a hour and a half session, started with a spa, we were both first timers so it was nice to break the ice, get know know each other, have some teasing and set what we want to experience to be like. We moved into a side by side table and our masseuse was alternating between us she then, rolled us over and worked in our fronts, we pervious agreed that i didn't need to touch her kitten but between her and the wifey was ALL go...
I guided the wifey hand to our masseuse and the rest flowed nicely. The masseuse did finger the wifey, got me involved and even used a wee vibrator it was great fun for everyone but she couldn't cum. They both turned their attention to me and worked together to my grand finale. Huge blow
My recommendation would be get a well know place to do it, make sure the let your misses chose the masseuses, (mine did) and the masseuse are open to a couple.
Keep the communication clear at all time (boundaries, desires and expectations) and you will have a blast.
Lastly, dont forget to tell us how it went
 
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They also mention if they are open to couples massages - either with another masseuse (so you have a masseuse each) or just by themselves (you, your missus and just one masseuse).

I have never been for a couples massage myself but one of the Debs girls told me about what happens. She said if you do the one masseuse option, you can take turns assisting the masseuse to massage each other. It sounded pretty hot.
 
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A couples massage with one girl does actually sound pretty hot the way you put it, especially given you can get up and take part in the massaging. That might work better as a first time for a couple and you can enjoy watching your partner and the massuess. Also sounds like in your case it turned into two girls massaging you at the end which is an added bonus.
 
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yeah, a lot of it was part of the initiation discussion, and once we got started it just flowed nicely instead of stoping in the middle of it and asking, can I do this, can I do that. That was my first experience and the bar was set pretty high and so are my expectation for the double couple coming up. I will report back
 
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