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Dating / Married a WG Tips/Tricks?

Dating / Married a WG Tips/Tricks?
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For those that have dated or married a WG, how long did your relationship(s) last?

What attracted you to them, and what lead to the eventual breakup? Any tips / tricks in how you were able to maintain that relationship?
 
Never try to change her, appreciate her exactly as she is. Respect her reasons for doing the job. Don't get jealous except as a joke. Let her decide what she tells you about her day at work. Be prepared to provide the emotional support unconditionally. Be cautious because her relationship to money may be quite different to yours. Enjoy the fireworks if she has a wild streak. Always be a gentleman and remember that you are both lucky. And ultimately it helps if you find the thought of her pleasuring other men a bit of a turn on.
 
Static nailed it respect her as she is.

If a SW chooses you for a non-monetary relationship, it’s a deep act of trust, honesty and vulnerability, given her world. The last thing you want to do is, shit all over it.

I dated a WG for over two years. Her fierce independence, sharp wit, and raw authenticity hooked me.

I initially got a thrill knowing she picked me over guys paying for her time. That ego trip didn’t last. Jealousy hit—not from her work, but my own insecurities. I was young and naive, and there was so much of healing, learning and growing I had to do.

We both battled substance abuse which didnt help either. It clouded our communication, fueled doubts, and crushed trust. My unresolved issues and that lifestyle broke us after a rough year and a half.

My Tips:
Never play the saviour; she doesn’t need rescuing.
Be honest about your baggage—jealousy is often stems from within.
Don’t fetishize her work—it’s her job, not your fantasy.
Respect her autonomy and boundaries around work talk; let her decide what to share.
Be her emotional anchor without judgment
Build real intimacy with genuine small gestures like listening or cozy nights in.
Avoid substances; they amplify highs but make lows brutal.


TL;DR
Celebrate her hustle, check your ego, and support her fully is you aim for something genuine.
 
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I would like to add that having experienced an open relationship, jealousy tends to lurk in here and there. Joking about that never works. Especially when those feelings are truly there. It's always good to express your jealousy openly in a healthy way to find the true cause of such an insecurity. A good partner would be open to help you ease such feelings. Regardless, I believe you would need a certain level of security within yourself to be able to manage a relationship with a WG.
 
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Sahara, you make a brilliant point.

Jealousy is a *******(authentic)human emotion, not something to be brushed off with a joke.

It’s raw, real, and can hit hard, especially in a dynamic like this.

You can’t just flip a switch to turn it off.

Like any emotion, it demands acceptance and understanding.

The key is finding a healthy way to process it, whether through open communication or digging into its root cause.

A partner who listens and supports you through those feelings, without judgment, is gold.

Practice radical honesty with yourself first.

Journaling helped me unpack my insecurities.

Once I got clear, I could talk to her without dumping my baggage.

Also, prioritize trust-building rituals: shared routines, deep conversations, or even silly moments that remind you both of your connection.

It’s about creating a safe space where jealousy can be aired, not buried.

Stay grounded, keep communicating, and respect her world

It’s a marathon, not a sprint.
 
Dated about Six of them in the last 12 years. Never expect that they will quit the job for you because they wont unless your a millionaire. The worst thing about it is not that they are having sex with other Men. Its the time that you dont get to spend with them because they are more committed to there job.

If your looking for a relationship best to look for a girl that is not in this type of business In my opinion.
 
Nothing like being at your desk grinding out your nine to five trying not to think about your girl getting railed by some dude with 9inch tool... No thanks...
 
Also seeing SWs Is not a shortcut to getting a attractive girlfriend or wife. Many guys think they will visit one hundred SWs and one will come along that they will be with forever. This is a fantasy.

The truth is if you can pick up a attractive SW you can also get a girl thats equally attractive that is not a SW. Because she's a SW does not make her any easier.

Cheers
 
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I remember some time ago I was a regular of a lady and she recommended me to her friend I walked in and the friend was a stunner Chinese girl the sex was amazing made her orgasm and she lay with me after cuddling me. I was not able to leave the bed as she would not let go I lay there for about two hours with her she was ranting about her husband and her problems with him. At the time I just wanted to shower up and get outta there but she kept saying she had not done this job for four years since she's been with her husband.

It was a strange experience and I remember thinking must suck to be that guy lol.
Apparently they were still together and living together also she was from another city. So I didn't take it any further
 
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Once, a few years ago. And it wasn't quite dating exactly, but more FWB. It involved a lot of setting boundaries in advance and checking in to see if we were both happy with things.

After about...14 months we ended things pretty amicably because it was clear we both loved fucking each other, but it would never be more than that. She wanted to date someone, and if I wasn't interested in being that person then she wanted to find someone else without being able to fall back on just calling me.
 
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