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Boobyman

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So a little bit of an embarrassing question from me, lately I don’t last long. I’m fairly active with sex/punting but for the love of God, I’ll last for 5 -6 pumps and I’m done. Bj last longer but not even 2min. 8 out of 10 sessions is a premature experience. So you might think it’s actually a good thing to have shorter bookings but I actually enjoyed having a full go for at least 10-20min in all positions. Any recommendations for delay creams or condoms that seem to have worked for you’s. I’ve googled but there is so many options. 😂😂😂 Cheers
 
I found having regular sex with a girl [or girls] I am very comfortable with helps me last longer. Cardio exercise also helps. Cut down on wanking too so your dick is used to being in a girl’s pussy or mouth instead of your hand. If I wank too much I get used to cumming with my hand and find I then cum immediately with a woman.
 
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When first started had this problem , found all in the mind . If you learn to control the mind the body will follow . Having an understanding and empathic sexual partner also ads to the experience whether professional or amateur. Always go for time not volume based bookings . In volume based the goal is to get you out the door as soon as possible, for them you are the ideal client. If you can afford it see a reputable Sexologist.
 
It really depends what's triggering you. Delay spray just numbs the skin, and they're good - but if it's the visual images that tip you over the edge, you'll still cum no matter how numb your skin is.
The delay spray and gel they have behind the counter at peaches and cream are all good.
 
I actually often have the opposite problem. Due to years of antidepressant use i sometimes can't blow my load and walk out without cumming. Both are frustrating so i feel your pain somewhat. We all want a satisfying punt. 😑
 
Sometimes for keep longer I use dapoxetine (pills ) or edge delay gel ( but looks they change the composants of the gel and it's not efficient like before )
 
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Oh hell yes! I know exactly how you feel! I'm currently weaning off them using a liquid form made from glycerol. 2.5% of my previous dose at a time. I could write a series of novels on that one, including the gaslighting I've gotten from medical professionals. Citalopram killed my dick dead. Ecitalopram took me in the opposite direction and made me hypersexual and risk prone. Neither is fun.
 
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Head stuff. A cool mix of anxiety, ocd, depression and likely adhd, battled since i was a kid. The sexual side effects of ssris (a class of antidepressants) are well known. They'll either kill your cock dead or send it into overdrive. Sometimes neither. Everyone reacts differently. Too many side effects for me plus they didn't work. I'd stay away from them unless you really need them. Diet, lifestyle, meditation works for me....and obviously a good punt! 🤣
 
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Citalopram is what I'm coming off of, down to 2 one week/1 the next. Should be off them completely in 4-6 weeks. This is my 3rd attempt. Think I'm past the worst of the coming off side effects. I was tetchy at hell a couple of weeks ago, and raging inside! Currently taking Ashwagandha gummies which seem to be helping.
 
Does anyone know where to get dapoxetine from ? They used to sell it in NZ under the name Priligy.
 
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