Girlfriend Experience
Girlfriend Experience
- Thread starter LaraX
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- May 26, 2024
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NBJ with mouthburst. Just kidding 
I'd say that what's included in GFE is what's in the ad for GFE unless arranged as extras.
What I look for in GFE is FS, handjob, multi-shot, breast play, cuddles and good conversation. I don't need FK or BJ, but COB is nice (definitely *not* to be confused with CBT!).
I'd expect PSE to start at toys, greek, deep-throat, prostate massage, etc.
What I look for in GFE is FS, handjob, multi-shot, breast play, cuddles and good conversation. I don't need FK or BJ, but COB is nice (definitely *not* to be confused with CBT!).
I'd expect PSE to start at toys, greek, deep-throat, prostate massage, etc.
- May 26, 2024
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That would definitely be a good GFE, although most punters would also probably french kissing and DATY.
These days a lot of working girls seem to charge extrea for everything including COB and Breast Play, even when it is a GFE!
I am looking for a genuine-feeling connection and intimacy. What exactly that looks like differs with each person, but I'd probably generally expect some kissing, mutual oral, hand-job, sex. I'll typically ask if certain things (boob play, fingering) are on the table, not because I necessarily expect them, but just so that before I start doing things, I know where the consent boundary is.
- Aug 21, 2024
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Pretty much my thoughts. There needs to be a bit of chemistry between provider and client, and sometimes a provider and client just don't click, even when both give it their best go. It helps me feel more comfortable making an initial inquiry when the ad gives a little more detail on what they offer in their service (e.g. kissing, oral both ways, etc.), rather than just putting "full service" or "GFE". Maybe this is from some less than pleasant responses I've had to what I thought were reasonable queries. I got told off by one WG for asking if she offered kissing? I didn't even ask for french kissing, just kissing, and in response I got lectured as if I had asked for oral without protection.
Excellent question, Lara. Finding out what your clients want (and following up by being clear about what you decide to offer, whatever that is) is textbook good business practice.
There is no definitive answer to that particular question (which is why it is endlessly debated).
Service-wise, the most common differentiator between FS and GFE bookings is the inclusion of French kissing and oral on you in the latter, and the allowing of multi-shots in bookings of 1 hour or longer. Cuddling and pillow talk are pretty much universal, but then they're not uncommon in FS bookings either. Hand jobs, blow jobs and intercourse are essentially standard across both FS and GFE. Things like showering with you, toys, or COB are not unheard of but they're not common. Including them, if you are up for it, will set you apart and above most other providers.
What makes a great GFE for me, above the individual service aspects, is the strength of the human connection. I love intimacy: kissing, giving oral, lots of eye contact, checking with each other how things feel. And conversation: getting to know a little about the person I'm sharing a good time with. I understand that is skirting the line, so I never push but I'm genuinely interested, don't have any ulterior motives (and I'm older than your typical psycho). Most girls seem to sense that.
There is no definitive answer to that particular question (which is why it is endlessly debated).
Service-wise, the most common differentiator between FS and GFE bookings is the inclusion of French kissing and oral on you in the latter, and the allowing of multi-shots in bookings of 1 hour or longer. Cuddling and pillow talk are pretty much universal, but then they're not uncommon in FS bookings either. Hand jobs, blow jobs and intercourse are essentially standard across both FS and GFE. Things like showering with you, toys, or COB are not unheard of but they're not common. Including them, if you are up for it, will set you apart and above most other providers.
What makes a great GFE for me, above the individual service aspects, is the strength of the human connection. I love intimacy: kissing, giving oral, lots of eye contact, checking with each other how things feel. And conversation: getting to know a little about the person I'm sharing a good time with. I understand that is skirting the line, so I never push but I'm genuinely interested, don't have any ulterior motives (and I'm older than your typical psycho). Most girls seem to sense that.
- Dec 2, 2024
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For me it's never about what sex acts are involved, but more about the vibe! Being more playful and affectionate and letting your personality show through. Personally I also find it a real turn off when providers put on an extremely cutesy and submissive persona for GFE bookings, I prefer a girlfriend that is a little spicier I guess!
