How to over anxiety and shame
How to over anxiety and shame
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- Jun 4, 2024
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Its nothing to be ashamed of. You're just paying to get what you want. =) no regrets
- May 9, 2024
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Start with SM and progress as your feel more comfortable
- Aug 10, 2024
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Go to someone who is well reviewed. Maybe try AF for that. Contact and agency and explain the situation, what you like etc. They’ll match you up with a suitable lady. After all they will want you back as a repeat.
- May 26, 2024
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There's plenty of reviews on this site and also a tutorial section. If you are new I'd recommend just starting with a sensual massage from somewhere like Debonairs. Just treat it like going for a regular massage.
- Apr 28, 2024
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As others said, SM is the best first step. I also started with SM and I had about 10 sessions before seeking full service. Not to mention that I've had no experience with women and was absolutely terrified at first.
Now I'm an addict who spends most of the income for punting.
but seriously, try SM and then FS but try to keep it to your budget and not to bankrupt yourself.
Now I'm an addict who spends most of the income for punting.
but seriously, try SM and then FS but try to keep it to your budget and not to bankrupt yourself.
- Aug 9, 2024
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Mate, I can assure you some WGs feel as much shame as you do in doing what they are doing. But realistically it's not the oldest profession in the world for no reason.
Shame is described as an emotion that involves negative self-evaluation and believing that something is wrong with you as a person for doing what you are about to do. Trust each and everyone on here, there is NO shame in wanting to have beautiful, erotic, sexual and warm encounters with lovely friendly women. If you took a girl out to dinner and bought her drinks etc in the expectation at the end of the night there would be a bonk, and there was, that's no different than meeting another girl for the same ultimate encounter. None. Zip. Nada. Zilch. Indeed, it's much cheaper and a sure thing, unlike your dinner date. You can try to talk yourself into it if you want - I had to. Once your'e over that barrier the encounters you can have are simply fantastic, and for me sort of life-changing. I am now friends with my very first regular, who has since retired from the industry. I have another girl now who acts sort of as my counsellor; sometimes there's no sex or anything else. I just need to see her, hold her and talk to her. I strongly believe that men are not bred to be with one woman for 60 years or so. It's chemically and physiologically impossible. I find so many women beautiful and just want to explore them, and get into their minds and stare into their eyes wondering about their inner beauty. And some I just want to f**k. There's no shame in having these innate feelings. Don't fight it. Get with it and love it because you only live once my friend.
Shame is described as an emotion that involves negative self-evaluation and believing that something is wrong with you as a person for doing what you are about to do. Trust each and everyone on here, there is NO shame in wanting to have beautiful, erotic, sexual and warm encounters with lovely friendly women. If you took a girl out to dinner and bought her drinks etc in the expectation at the end of the night there would be a bonk, and there was, that's no different than meeting another girl for the same ultimate encounter. None. Zip. Nada. Zilch. Indeed, it's much cheaper and a sure thing, unlike your dinner date. You can try to talk yourself into it if you want - I had to. Once your'e over that barrier the encounters you can have are simply fantastic, and for me sort of life-changing. I am now friends with my very first regular, who has since retired from the industry. I have another girl now who acts sort of as my counsellor; sometimes there's no sex or anything else. I just need to see her, hold her and talk to her. I strongly believe that men are not bred to be with one woman for 60 years or so. It's chemically and physiologically impossible. I find so many women beautiful and just want to explore them, and get into their minds and stare into their eyes wondering about their inner beauty. And some I just want to f**k. There's no shame in having these innate feelings. Don't fight it. Get with it and love it because you only live once my friend.
- Jul 19, 2024
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Idk, you never know. I remember doing it the first time and thinking it'd be super nerve racking, but nah turned out to be exactly the same as normal sex idk. But, it does still to this day feel a bit less intimate and distant from the real thing, like we're all just pretending
- Aug 9, 2024
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Just go in with an open mind. I think your mindset is the most important.
Everyone has their vices, its only normal for humans to.
Sex aside, it is human to want to embrace and hold another human being.
No matter whatever you do, society will always judge you... why let this stop you?
We all eventually return to ash and are often always proccupied with our own thoughts.
Visiting a WG/WL will give you an experience like no other, it is one of the many pleasures that life offers.
Think about it — how many other people on this earth are able to have more than a few sexual ecounters in their lifetime? Not many I presume...
When and if you do engage in pillow talk with a WG/WL you will find it almost therapeutic.
You will find that WG's / WL's are also humans who have their own hopes, dreams and aspirations.
You should not be ashamed!
In many other cultures visiting a WG/WL is seen as a rite of passage for young men.
It is also viewed as a normal thing to do for men as well.
My first couple of experiences were bad as I wasn't use to the whole thing.
Once I did get use to everything, I started to relax and wasn't as anxious.
Take it easy and she'll be right
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