Multiple cancellations? Any opinions?

Multiple cancellations? Any opinions?
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Arc

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Been seeing this really great girl for a couple of months and she's started cancelling on me lately. Like the last two sessions were even cancelled a mere 10 to 15 mins. before the bookings, and these are on two consecutive days. Is this a message that I'm not welcome? I'm really interested in keeping things going, but don't wanna run around in circles. What do you guys think?
 
Can I ask how many times you've seen her in the couple of months?
What do you mean by "keeping things going"? Weekly, fortnightly? Short sessions, long sessions?
More context is needed in order to speculate.
 
Sorry, English is not my first language. Seen her like 7-8 times? Wanna see her maybe fortnightly? Or weekly at most. Been some time since I found a regular. Booked mostly 1 hour sessions, 2 hours that one time
 
Is she independent or an agency girl?

Maybe she's worried you are becoming too attached? Either way probably best not to keep seeing her if she is just canceling on you like that, it's unprofessional on her part and there must be some reason behind it lol.
 
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It was their receptionist that I was messaging. Didn't give a reason until the most recent time when I asked, said she had something urgent to deal with. I did directly ask if I was the issue, and was assured it wasn't, but still can't shake the feeling as she replied in seconds that I don't think she even asked the girl lol, maybe just tryna be polite
 
If you are getting a sense that she is trying to avoid making an appointment with you then there may be something to it. I would just move on, give her a break and try again in a couple of months.
 
Maybe she feels like you are developing an unusual or unhealthy attachment to her lol. Although working girls having regulars is not an uncommon thing.
 
I reckon just leave it for a while, see other girls and you'll soon forget about this one. Don't get attached, who cares what her reason was, it's a sign for you to cool off and get your emotions in check. After a few weeks or even months having fun with other girls, maybe shoot her a text
 
always have a backup girl. Or another agency. Tbh it maybe that time of the month, party night before etc. Don’t take it personally. There are lots of options.
 
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Cancelling 15 minutes out is unprofessional and means you are basically on the doorstep, before you receiving the bad news. Notwithstanding the receptionist’s comments, I would venture that you are having more than random bad luck.

If it’s a reputable agency, there will be management you can contact and ask what the issue is. There maybe aspects of your client game that need improving, who knows? But it’s always good to get to the truth.
 
Some of these girls can be incredibly flaky. And if they suddenly "aren't feeling it" they'll cancel. Or worse, just not answer the door. TBH i kind of get it. Most are relatively young and its not the kind of job you can just turn up and pretend to work like an office job. Even shit service is going to require you to suck on some guys dick and get it shoved in you. So i can imagine if you have a sudden "fuck i can't do this today" there's not much they can do about it. This is of course a theory and i may be completely wrong.
 
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