Request Need Advice

[Nate]

Hey everyone, I could use some advice.


I recently tried having sex for the first time. After about 10-15 minutes of foreplay, I ended up ejaculating before there was any penetration.


Is this something normal for a first-time experience, or should I be concerned and consider seeing a doctor?


Appreciate any guidance-thanks!

 

[bigdicktrump]

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cumming from oral or handjob is perfectly normal and has nothing to do with you being inexperienced. most guys cum quicker from handjobs anyway than condom penetration.

 

[Slippin Joey]

perfectly normal. more experience you will be able to hold on longer.

 

[ballisto]

Have a breather and try again a few minutes later, it should be substantially more difficult to ejaculate.

 

[Hornybutbroke]

Stick it in earlier

 

[Big D]

Yeah, agree with others here.

The excitement of it being your first time was probably a factor. Your blood will be racing!

You just gotta have a bit more practise to learn how to avoid cumming too soon. Figure out what triggers you easily and work around it, avoiding it until you want it to happen

There are times even now for me, when a woman will be doing her thing and I'll feel an orgasm about to build. Too early! I'll quickly get her to stop what's she's doing. 'Whoa, that's feels too good. Don't make me cum yet." or something like that. Let her know how good she is. She'll probably get a kick out of it.

They need to know this stuff about you. What works for you and what doesn't. The best way to give you pleasure for longer or the best way to get you off when you want it. They also may appreciate that you're not all about just your own sexual satisfaction. Then try something different. Maybe give her some pleasuring instead by going down on her or something. Show her you're a giver not a taker. Come back to the hand job or whatever a few minutes later. You'll probably be less likely to burst your load.

 

[Nate]

I'm really glad I decided to post on this forum.
Thank you all for the genuine replies, advice, and for sharing your experiences—it truly means a lot. I deeply appreciate the support. It’s helped me gain a lot of clarity and confidence.