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Nerves.....
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bigdog23

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Hey, so every now and then the nerves kick in and I struggle to rub one out during a booking. Sometimes also struggle to maintain being hard, even taking the blue pill. Doesn't happen everytime, but when it does, I think it was such a waste of money. I guess pressure with time running out, maybe just not vibing, or other things, it can happen.

Does this happen to anyone else? And what are some tips you have to stop the nerves and make the most of it and not feel like it was a waste of money.
 
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Being an older fella, I don't always climax. Nothing to do with nerves in my case, just 'geriatric' biology.
But, anyway, I take the viewpoint that a hour in the naked company of a beautiful younger woman is not a waste of money, even without the climax.
Just relax, try for a bit of light-hearted banter, let the lady take the lead if it helps you, and remember that you're both there because of a shared interest.
 
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A few guys here might find it funny, but I 'get' the notion of it being a privilege. At least, in my case, I feel fortunate to be able to spend time with beautiful younger women I'd have no chance with outside this industry.

However, as already mentioned, as client and SWer you're both there for a reason. There's no guarantee of a great connection between you ... but being polite, light-hearted & considerate is generally enough for a mutually good time. And there's no need for you to worry about the clock, she will take care of that.
 
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Invest time, and effort, in finding someone you like, and with whom you have some kind of rapport. Then make her your primary industry provider. Nerves are less likely to be an issue where there is familiarity.

You should still get keyed up in the lead up to your liaisons, but this should resolve once you’re indoors.
 
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