Paying female friend or acquaintance for sex

Paying female friend or acquaintance for sex
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Does anyone have any experience paying a female friend or acquaintance for casual sex? If so, how did it go? How did you bring up such an arrangement?

A few years ago I knew a hot younger women who joked with me about being a sugar baby when she had some financial difficulties. It did cross my mind to offer her money for sex but my brain played it safe and I didn’t go through with it.

In contrast, a more daring mate of mine brought up paying for sex with a female acquaintance of his and she accepted. She sought his assurance he did not think of her as a “whore” before she accepted.
 
It worked for me for about an year. She was a mutual friend of a friend met at a gathering, it slowly started off as sexting, exchanging pics and then one day I asked for casual fling which she rejected after few weeks she brought up the topic of casual sex for financial help to sort out few things. I accepted the offer and it worked great for me. I was only paying $300 but no time limit, she usually stays for 3/4hours. The max I paid her was $600 for all night. She stayed till afternoon next day. I miss it now a days.
 
Not friends as such but I’ve met girls on seeking and paid them for sex for like a year. It just naturally runs its course I guess. They tend to be cuter and the sex is way better than with SW and longer sessions but it’s time consuming meeting them. Pricing similar to the above.
I wouldn’t have a problem with paying a female friend for sex but I just don’t have any cute ones lol
I guess my point is you can just meet girls on seeking for this purpose if you don’t want to complicate it.
 
kennyt said:
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Sounds good! How much running around do you have to do on seeking to find cuties?

I logged in once and saw some hotties but was unsure if it was worth the subscription price. Do you need to make a profile with your picture showing to get responses on there?
 
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i didn't add a photo but it is worth it if you are serious about it. It's more about meeting girls with similar expectations i.e. pay per meet, rather than giving them an allowance etc. that would just get expensive. i met about 6 or 7 girls on there. they were all decent and only one decided it wasn't for her. she's back on there again though wasting other peoples time lol
 
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Sometimes you gotta take a risk. A lot of the time the friendship is never going to naturally amount into anything more anyway. Plus most friendships run their course anyway. I have tried it a couple times and it just ended the friendship, although wasn't strong friendships anyway
 
But this is a interesting one, its kind of within the gray area of sex work. You are going to get some NZPC idiots and jaded old bitter misandrist prostitutes telling you they are sex workers just like any escort down at the brothel and you need to be wearing condoms (for oral, vaginal, and anal sex) and they should be paying tax. But as we know it's a bit different in these situations. And as should be expected with a personal thing such as sex the barrier between sex worker, friendship and even relationship can sometimes blur. In some cases its not easy to define.
 
IMO the critical factor here would be how badly the 'friend' needs the money.
Thinking to a few ladies who I would have liked to do this with, they earned more than I did 😂

It's only playing with fire if you genuinely value the friendship on its own merits. But if she's just an acquaintance that you fancy, and you have reason to believe that she'd welcome the money, then it's more worth the risk.
 
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This makes sense. Back in circa 2009 it was common to meet some cute girls doing a few shifts casually at Purple Orchids or even a more old school venue like Pelican club to get some quick cash. These days I assume those wanting to do the odd shift here or there casually just find a guy online for a sugar daddy or pay a pay per bang arrangement.
 
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Exactly, that’s how I feel. You used to be able to get a little hottie delivered from somewhere like Pelican club. Like 80% of the time was quality what was advertised was what was delivered. Now we have people telling us why we should tolerate bait and switches 🤪
 
Don't forget OnlyFans as well so of young hotties are in need of cash they probably try the sugar daddy websites and maybe even only fans first. Before escorting.

Actually it wasn't paying a friend for sex but I do remember one time back in the day I matched with some hot young chick on tinder in Christchurch. Exchanged a couple of messages and then she ghosted me. Knew it wasn't going to lead anywhere romantic so I just hit up blunt over Tinder and offered her sex for cash. She wasn't keen but ended up trading me some nudes over snapchat for cash. And of course i recorded them, you know how it is lmao. I sent her some dick pics as well and she she screen shotted them lmao.

We never agreed on a price and she sent me a few pics and a video of her in the shower playing with her pussy. I ended up sending her $15 and she was real offended it was so little money lmao. I also tried to offer her more money to meet up for sex or even just a HJ or to watch me wank but she was never keen for anything more than sending nudes lmao. I ended up ghosting her and every now and then she'd send me non-nude pics trying to get me to send her more money for nudes 🤣

I do remember I also matched with another hot chick on tinder at the same time. Offered her cash for sex. But she wanted too much. This was like 8-9 years ago and she wanted like $350. I was broke at the time and didn't have the money. Also I wasn't sure she wasn't just a regular sex worker trying to pull clients on Tinder.
 
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