Condoms aren't 100% effective anyway and probably the safest way is to not have sex with escorts. Or stick to non pentrative activities such as sensual massage. I have never had a condom break or anything but one time in the mid 2000s I got molluscum contagiosum (kind of like genital warts) around the base of my penis where the condom didn't cover. It was from a girl at Mustangs gentlemans club in Albany if anyone remembers that. I was single at the time but still dating random girls and was really worried about giving it to one I might hook up with. It was a real pain in the arse to get rid of cause they kept coming back. Think it took me like 1-2 years to finally be free of them. Hell that's probably worst than STIs like chlamydia and syphilis etc which can be cured with a pill!
I've only ever raw dogged one working girl maybe 10 years ago or some shit. It was some amatuer one I found on Backpages, I could tell she was pretty fresh. I instantly regretted it after as it caused me heaps of stress wondering if I had aids or some shit. The mental anguish of it all makes it not worth it alone. So I wouldn't do that again lol.
That said I do natural bj quite a lot and to be honest have never had a problem with it. The only thing I'd be worried about with that is herpes (cold sores), so I guess you gotta pay attention to the working girl. But hell you could catch that just from kissing her. The risks with unprotected bjs are a lot lower than vaginal, probably why it isn't illegal in Aussie. And its very common for working girls over there to do it.
I'm not an expert on the subject but aids medicine has come a long way. These days people with HIV live a lot longer and better than before. But more importantly there is some new medication these days that reduces HIV to non-detectable amounts and therefore makes it non-transferable through natural sex. (I'm not gay or LGBT) but there was a big hurray in the gay community with advocates suggesting people shouldn't have to reveal their HIV status if it is non-detectable due to the stigma. But still fuck obviously its much better to not have HIV/Aids.
I've said this before and other threads but I think if they magically removed all STIs from the world tomorrow, and we also made unprotected sex legal for sex workers. Still a lot of them would probably want to use condoms anyway as its a hygiene and intimacy thing. For example, they would prefer to save natural sex for their partners in their private life.
The whole post-op tranny thing is a bit of a worry. Some of the punters on here seem to have fucked a man with fake tits and an inverted penis. Does that make them gay? Fuck knows.