Question. Has punting improved your personal sex life?

Question. Has punting improved your personal sex life?
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aucklandcityboi

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Bit of a random one here, but just throwing it out there as it's a thought that crosses my mind from time to time. Whenever I sleep with a "working girl", usually they moan like hell and orgasm, but obviously some of them if not all are putting on a show. I feel like this may have given me a false expectation of what sex should be like in my personal life and also has given me a bit of false confidence with how good I am in bed. How do you go about not having performance anxiety with girls you meet in your private life (not working girls), and overall do you think punting has improved your personal sex life or made it worse?
 
Oh, and the main reason I brought this up is because I was having sex a few weeks back with a girl from my private life, and 5-10 minutes in to fucking I remember thinking "shouldn't she have cum by now" as generally that's around the time the working girls put on the show and orgasm (whether fake or not), and I got really self conscious and in my head about it, thinking that I wasn't good enough or she wasn't into it, and I actually went soft (super embarassing) and just ate her out afterwards.
 
Not sure why you would compare girls in your person life to girls that are paid to make you feel good - you need to readjust your expectations or else you're going to have repeated disappointments like this.
 
Pretty much no woman, paid or not, will come from penetration alone.
Sure it happens, but it is an exception, not a rule.
This has been very common knowledge for decades.
So if you think any woman is cumming just because you've slipped your tube steak into her, your expecations are out of whack.


If you play with the slippery envelope, and the magic shudder button at the top of it, and you are even half way competent, you'll get her there.
If you know what you are looking for, things like flushed skin, shuddering and shaking, erratic hip movements, you will know you've done the job.
Do the above and then you might even get them over the line again with penetration, but even then it is fairly unlikely.
I'm no master of the art of pleasuring a woman, but I've never failed to get one to cum if I have done the above.
Including working girls, the practiced moaning changes to real moaning with them if you actually give them a good time too.
Trust me, you can tell the difference, because the moans and noises change, when they are real.
Put in some spade work if you want genuine moans and reactions, if you don't care, then clearly you don't need to bother.

I chuckled at the finger up the bum comment above.
Wish I came across women that like that, but have yet to find one.
 
Man everyone woman is different. Some are easier to get over the line than others. Some like it slow some like a good hard dicking some like it in between and that includes foreplay.... Like the others said. Change it up a bit. Communicate. Find out what they like. If they're having a good time. They are more likely to give you a good time in return.

If it's harder to get them to cum then take it as a challenge rather than an insult.
 
If you ask at the start what gets them over the line you’re on the right track. If they tell you they don’t normally cum then that’s a hint or a challenge ( for your oral skills). If you can get these ones to have an O the rest of the booking goes really really well. 😜
 
I gotta be honest, personally its probably made me worst at sex. Because I'm lazy and selfish as fuck having sex now. It's all about my pleasure not the woman's. 🤣
 
When I was in my early 20s and even late teens I was actually really good at pleasing the ladies. Used to go down on them and make them cum all the time. One of my favorite tricks was fucking them missionary and putting my hand around and doing a bit of anal play which they loved as long as I wasn't too rough. That used to be my signature trick lol. These days I haven't been down on a chick for over a year 🤣🤣🤣
 
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