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Request See a WG outside of her work?

Request See a WG outside of her work?
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holymoly

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Curious as to whether anyone’s had an experience of seeing a WG outside of their professional realm?

I’ve been seeing an escort fairly regularly for the past year, we get along, always have a great time with some good chats in between.

I’ve thought about asking if she’d be keen to catch up outside of work but have always avoided it, not wanting to push the professional boundaries or make her uncomfortable, but it’s purely out of interest in her.

Appreciate any thoughts, comments or concerns (I can think of many) the forum might have.
 
I've had a few SW FWB's over the years/decades, always initiated by them, I've never found it to work out very well, keeping it a professional relationship is typically easier, if you're looking for a girlfriend go and find a girlfriend not a SWer. I still have one or two mate SWer's but I keep it as just mates.
 
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I had a fairly similar situation with a SW myself, never thought about taking it any further however. I was in a relationship so wouldn't have been easy anyway. She did invite me to join her personal Instagram but I don't have it so didn't. Not sure if it would change the dynamic between us and our bookings were so good I wouldn't have wanted to possibly affect that
 
Keep in mind that asking for a catch up outside of work means she's losing business and perhaps breaking rules and could get fired depending on where she works. That's a whole lot of risk for probably not much reward if you ask me 😆 and she wont be the same person outside as she won't be paid to like you or perform for you. She's just a fantasy. If she's interested, she will let you know.
 
Tried a few times - once was used like an ATM and eventually assaulted the first time I said no, another was ok as a friendship but no sex ever. With one WG worked ok for a while. Generally think terrible idea. On other occasions have learned to say no when suggested.
 
A long time ago in a galaxy far away called the early 2010s I used to frequent a lovely Chinese girl at Tawera Rd in Greenlane. We really hit it off and had great sessions. She was the first girl I ever gave a rim job to. Her anus was anus #1 and tasted beautiful.

I started catching feelings and asked her on a date. Her response was “a sex date?” to which I replied “no dinner and a walk”. She immediately popped any illusions I had when she replied “just see me here [at Tawera Rd brothel] baby”.

Don’t get your personal and punting life confused. Enjoy the fantasy in the room during your paid time.
 
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I would avoid it as it can only end badly I would think. Although you meet her regularly you are meeting her in her showgirl persona which is likely to be very different from reality. In reality you are also doing the same, potentially with a different name, on your best behavior and grooming 😀.

Enjoy being in love with her for the hr you meet her and don't make it complicated. Just my thoughts though.

Good luck.
 
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