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booleanthief

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How early is too early? And how late is too late?

And for any SW, what are some of your weird/funny experiences with guys cuming too early or never cumming?
 
I had a client who told me he couldn't cum with less than 2 hours of intense stimulation. Poor guy couldn't keep a girlfriend because he was such hard work.

I had another client who came while fully clothed while rubbing up against me in my lingerie in front of a mirror at the beginning of the session, which was actually pretty hot 😅

I'm noticing some clients refer to themselves as premature because they cum in under 20-30 minutes, which is actually completely normal. I believe cumming within a minute of penetration/stimulation is regarded as 'premature'.
 
Ironmonger said:
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Yes I made that mistake once, when I was much younger and sometimes had a problem coming too soon with a girl. I had a wank in the shower thinking I'd be able to last much longer but then I couldn't get it up at all during the booking, which didn't go down well. She thought it meant I didn't like her and when I explained why she got angry with me for "wasting her time" :LOL:
 
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Lol I think anything more than 10min is above normal and actually really good. 3 to 5 mins is kind of normal range, sometimes 7mins too is within that range and this 3-5 min is where most men lie. You can increase the time if you eat healthy, drink water, exercise and also train your pelvic floor muscles daily.

But if a guy cums in a couple of mins, it can be many reasons.
1) He might have not ejaculated for more than a day. So there is a lot of build up and the more days he stays free from releasing all of it, the more sensitive he is to touch and friction. It's is quite normal.

2) A good tight pussy makes it feel right for him and he just releases it. Tight pussy enhances the feeling as it wraps around his tool like a paper and with that also adding of the friction of going in and out, makes it hard for him to hold it for long.

3) the excitement of meeting a new girl and the attraction to her looks, builds and makes it releases quickly too.
 
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kennyt said:
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Bro I too felt the pressure of cuming in a few mins, but man I realized it's normal. Watching porn set unrealistic expectations which was not true. Besides, porn stars, cum before they start, use numbing agents, and take break for multiple shorts and even pop a pill to keep it hard, eat healthy and exercise which are all ways of how they keep it going. They themselves admit it too.

It's all available online when you do your own research and a majority of men don't know this, worrying too much. A few mins is ideal and big dicks hurt women than it pleasures them.

You last a few mins and has a normal 5 inch dick size, you are normal and she would enjoy it. If you are above average in size, you are still normal but not normal for some ethnicities. It's just how reality is.
 
Mr Yoel is quite the sexpert.
I can last pretty much any length of time up to about 45mins, sometimes longer, depending on how recently I've cum, what we are doing, mental and physical state. But I'm a jaded old sex-addicted hack who likes to maximize every session for its full potential. I adore riding the wave until the final blast.
I'm sure many experienced others on here can too.
 
It doesn't really matter. You paid for your time so cum whenever you want.
I had a client who couldn't cum due to some medication but then he came back when he was off of it to prove to me he can cum haha. It was really cute.

Some guys ask me if it's time to cum before cumming. Hint - if I have started wanking you off then it's probably time 😆

I rather know if I am teasing you too much so I can chill out and help you last longer. Communication is key.
 
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Being on the older side and definitely not capable of two shots, I find it's helpful to say upfront that I want to take it slow. I often have to discourage an enthusiastic girl from being too rough with her hands on my cock, as it can lead to a loss of sensation later. Going down on her with my cock out of reach can fix that problem... :ROFLMAO:

In fact, again a function of age, I can last quite a long time. But, unless I keep the moves slow, if I go too long I lose sensitivity and cumming becomes a challenge. This is particularly the case if I deliberately restrain myself from cumming, so I try to avoid having to do that. I learned a while ago that "getting my moneys worth" in terms of cock-in-pussy time was false economy. I prefer to have a shorter, but more enjoyable, time that includes cumming while inside her. Finishing with a HJ or BJ, even when it is really skillful, feels a bit of a let down for me. There's something about "having" her pussy that feels much more satisfying, even if the time inside was short.

In fact, I've had some very enjoyable sessions that involved something likt 15 minutes of massage, 15 minutes foreplay and sex, 15 minutes massage to chill out. Decide when and how you want to cum and go for it!
 
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Oh no not at all. I'm not a sexpert or an expert in anyway. The pressure of lasting longer rather than enjoying the moment is what makes you last short.

I was just stating the facts of what normal range is. I have had sessions that lasted for good 40mins. While 3-5mins is normal, there are longer lasting time for some men, who are above normal and you sir should be proud of it too.
 
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