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WGs - psychological impacts of sex work
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Ladies - i'm interested to know, in detail, what psychological impact the work has on you.

i've heard that some SWs feel used / degraded after encounters. from a male perspective, i'm struggling to understand it. i'm elated when i give a woman orgasmic pleasure. help me understand your perspectives, please .

as a guy - what can we do to treat the women in our life better ? to make yall feel more loved, respected, and cared for .
 
Tim I would be surprised if any ladies are wanting to get into something as deeply personal as this on an online forum. They may be OK to talk in general terms maybe. And of course any responses regarding perspectives can only apply to that person as everyone is different.
 
timwalsh34 said:
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For me personally I actually prefer the encounters with males through work as you guys actually tend to treat me better than men I date in the real world, something about paying a decent bit of coin to rail someone makes men behave a little better than a fuckboy from hinge or tinder that wants to go 50/50 on a dinner that they invited you on (yikes) hard to feel degraded after working a decent tour and seeing a fat stack of cash sitting before you 🤭 (don’t worry @JohnnyPunter, I do deposit it into my business account and pay my taxes!)

That being said, if you want to make us feel more loved and respected etc, use mouthwash, deodorant, make sure your junk doesn’t stink of piss, and don’t push our boundaries 🥰
 
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It might not be unusual to put in the kind of effort for an encounter as for a first date. If I'm paying by the hour then I want that time to be the best it can be. Scrubbing up a bit and putting in some effort doesn't cost anything extra. Also, I'm getting an experience that's off the charts that I can't get in civvie dating.
 
I always go to pay, and wait to see if the lady will offer to split. And seen through a lens of sex-as-commodity it seems weird to me, but it's most often the ones who have no intention of things progressing who let me foot the bill. While the ones who later put out are the ones offering to split.
 
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Hate to break the fantasy for you, as you are probably thinking from the prespective of banging hot beautiful women (like the SWs you would've encountered) and getting paid for it.

The reality is more like you're trying to get hard when an old hag had paid you to perform, and you need to at least act like you enjoy her company and kindly ask her to go for a shower first before she try to deep kiss you with smoker breath.

While she suffocate you in between her hairy legs for a long DATY, your mind is already thinking about the next session with your fat regular who like to pay extra for you to rim her fat ass (she don't wash properly btw).

Also your manager just texted in to say a new client had ask for a bi-double for you to suck off another old male escort while she watch, of course you get paid good money for that.

Enjoy giving your client orgasmic pleasure. :sneaky:
 
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Request SF create a separate discussion area for the SNAG’s trying to understand the psychological and emotional drivers of punters and SW. there seems to be a few random people doing research for free. Why doesn’t SF create the area and charge them to post. ?
 
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The fact that so many of y'all on here are dead set on this idea that all us workers hate, or at best have to 'grin and bear it,' when it comes to doing bookings is nuts hahaha.

Is this just a shared belief that every punter is a chore to hang out with? If so, we have a collective self esteem issue happening on this forum fellas ☹️

Although for some it could be a little bit of self-soothing cope. The idea that us girlies can be getting paid, getting laid AND enjoying it? No that sounds like too good of a deal, better to imagine we're all holding back sobs mid blowie every booking instead lmao
 
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