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Who here has UNHEALTHILY simped over a WG before?

Have you simped over a WG?


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Who here has UNHEALTHILY simped over a WG before?

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Has anyone ever UNHEALTHILY simped over a WG, and if so, how severely?

Did you see them weekly, did you buy them gifts, arranged outcalls, paid for them to travel with you domestically or internationally etc.?
 
About 30 years I got obsessed over an escort. I was seeing her weekly (which I couldn't afford) and thinking about her all the time. I ended up telling her and asked her to ban me from seeing her. She said she would and so I never went back.

P.S. I had to look up what "simp" meant and this is probably not quite it but it's along similar lines. The head space I was in was ripe for being taken advantage of.
 
Yes 😓 The curse of being besties with incredibly hot, cool, and funny women. My burden to bare!

But to be serious, of all the behaviours that unsettle me as a worker, gents that blur that line and are unable to stay grounded in terms of the reality of what our time together is, is one of my top worries. People can rationalize all kinds of odd, boundary pushing, sometimes scary behaviours when they think it's "in the name of love." 😬 It's why I appreciate my fellas who understand and enjoy our arrangement for exactly what it is so much. No "be my girlfriend" jump scares to worry about, they set off my fight or flight response lmao.
 
Not unhealthy if you stay within your limits and you learn from mistakes. I’ve wasted money on shit my whole life this is just the current way of doing it. I gift for time as I only get the opportunity not book every couple of months.

Stupid recently after two last minute cancellations for planned 2-3 hour bookings. Cost a fair bit of time and money got bent out of shape.

The not been able to sort plus a whole over a 2 months period bugged the shit me enough to be unhealthy.
 
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I used to buy gifts for my regular lady, never big around 200 max. But in return she was willing to do more with me during out time together. I was a bit worried at one point how often I thought about her but I do remember her telling me about her new partner during a booking and I really didn't care so I kinda figured I wasn't at that unhealthy level. I knew what our time together was, it was amazing but it was what it was
 
Definite no for me. Where there will be SWs I think about a lot and can't wait to see them again, I'm always mindful they're doing a job and simply delivering on a fantasy.

I tend to go more in the opposite extreme, especially with SWs a lot younger than me. I'm thinking oh, they don't really wanna be with me. They're probably repulsed by me. I'm old enough to be their father. They're just putting on an act. Even the ones that seem to genuinely like me and connect with me are just great at doing their job making me think I'm sexy and desirable. I'm always skeptical especially when the girl is doing a lot of moaning and groaning and twisting. Although I've got a lovely one who I've seen a couple of times now who insists "Yes, I came! Didn't you notice the way my pussy tightened up around you?" Me it's like "Ummm. I'm clueless. Even with my previous partners I'd never know unless they told me." :ROFLMAO:
 
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I did once, just subscribed to her OF just to see more of her pics/vids. Before I was in a relationship but my partner was meh in bed. Anyway after awhile I finally booked the girl and was disappointed because whats online is clearly not the same as in person but after the sex never simped or rebooked that WG again.

But that's life, what you see is not always what you get.
Lesson learned.
 
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