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Yikes I need some advice!
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Baron

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A couple if weeks back I txted a WG re FS . Was quickly txted back advising she was going on Holiday the next day. So I politely closed out the conversation. Fast forward to today. I’m at work and in the afternoon I receive a txt from said WG saying Hi Darling and advising she is back from holiday and looking forward to seeing me! Not sure how much of that message was seen by anybody else as it flash onto my I watch!! So my question is WTF!! Is this acceptable behavior ? Holy Cow I don’t want follow up txts fishing for work and follow up business unless instigated by me. Interested in your view and advice on how what to do next. Am I being unreasonable?
 
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I understand where you are coming from in that you weren't expecting a txt.
Unreasonable? No.
But maybe a little coming in hot.
I think the best way for you to have tackled the original message string would have been to close off that you would consider contacting back in a couple of weeks if you were still interested in making a booking.
Thus making clear that any further contact would be initiated by you.
Then if she contacte you out of the blue, then that would be out of order.

Is it acceptable behaviour?
Well that is subjective, what would bother one person wouldn't another.
I think she probably thought she was being helpful by letting you know that you could contact her again, I don't think malice was involved (at least from your desription).
Is it usual behaviour? No, but also not statistically unheard of, as it happens somewhat often, maybe 1/4 or less.

Just my opinion.
 
If you’re not keen on acquiring a punt SIM or similar, you can always silence / mute / block the WG number so it doesn’t pop up a notification on your phone. You still receive it but can check it on your own private time.
 
On android you can set it to not show notification previews from numbers that are not in your contacts.

But yeah, get a second phone, or if your phone can do E-sim or has a second sim slot do that too and just disable the punting sim when you aren't using it.

Also, whatsapp, line, wechat are good to use, and just turn notifications off. My personal nightmare would be having people in my car, and a random WG messages me with "Hey baby......." and I have to come up with an awkward story for my colleague or family member.
 
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I don't think this is acceptable behaviour, unless perhaps you've already said that messages are silent, either on a separate phone / SIM / whatever. There are one or two providers where I wouldn't bothered if they sent a text, but from most it'd be unwelcome, and reflect poorly on them.
 
It's generally frowned upon for working girls to cold call and message out of the blue like that. The sensible ones don't do it to avoid putting clients in hot water with wives and girlfriends or work colleagues such as in your case. Most of them don't do it. On the rare occasions they do I find it's generally the less experienced and/or desperate ones that do it. And as everyone else said... get a punting phone/sim.
 
Some indies who tour sporadically dgaf and will have no qualms doing it to drum up extra business.

I can sort of understand because ads on NZG can be off/on so randomly you wouldn't know otherwise. Does it make it right, not really
 
@Baron it has happened to me occasionally where I was cold called by someone I had previously seen, and when they did, the message was fairly benign. But if you are concerned about getting more unsolicited calls from them then just block that number.

In your case you knew who was calling but it can be more disconcerting when you do not recognise the number and who the hell they are are. I replied to one such call, asking who is this? They used discretion and said, sorry wrong number. I worked out after the fact who it was and made contact. But in my experience most WG's are pretty savvy with their text language when making contact.

It is no big deal IMO. Worst case scenario is you just fob it off as a wrong number. Move on and don't worry about it.
 
As a mainly-touring W/G myself the only time I'll 'cold call' someone is if they've:
A; Asked me to text them when i'm next in their area. (9/10 I always forget)
B; They are a long term reg and book every time I'm in town.

But that being said whenever I do text it is ALWAYS on a week day between 9-11am.

If you're going to regularly be seeing W/G, get another sim/ a cheap burner phone. We hate being contacted by wives :ROFLMAO:
 
I think everyone’s given good points here.

For Debs, we will never text you out of the blue unless you’ve explicitly asked for us to/agreed to it. I think it’s simply not appropriate otherwise. Regardless of if they use a punting sim or not.

I like my notifications to just show that a text was received, but it doesn’t show the name/number or message preview.
 
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