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- Mar 22, 2025
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These are my top handy tips for punters!
#1: I take notes of who was kind and respectful or not, who tipped or not, who was unusually difficult, or who tried to push boundaries and get more services than what they paid for. And then I put you on a black list and never see you again. If you are particularly bad I send your number out to forums for other sex workers to put on their black list. Reviews go both ways and the industry is saturated with customers.
#2: Stop assuming every provider lays around waiting for you to message. Screening / scheduling / admin / getting ready all takes time just like in any other profession. Many are only doing this to fund our further studies and business endeavours.
#3: Stop thinking that reviews tell an entire experience. Most are either embellishing or punishing with only one side presented. What I may feel comfortable offering to one client vs another is absolutely different based on hygiene alone. If you are rude/ disrespectful / or just disgusting I will not give you a good service.
#4: Before you go writing reviews bagging a ladies appearance. Give yourself a hard reality check. You are paying her for sex because obviously no one / not many people wants to have sex with you for free. Look at yourself in the mirror. Give yourself an evaluation similar to what you give the ladies and then really think to yourself if you are really that much above her.
#5: Professional photos - for sure I could do them and then instantly charge more for that mirage. If you want to pay more for photoshopped photo girl then, again - that is entirely each to their own. I prefer to keep my overheads as low as possible so that I can charge a better rate for a good service.
#6: You are not going to get the best service if you don’t take the time to get the lady ready for penetration. We are actors - but unlike fake crying, you can’t exactly “fake make yourself horny” if you will lol
#7: You get the time you pay for. It’s not my fault if you choose to talk for half of the time you have paid for. Similarily I will not text with you for free or send you photos leading up to our booking time, why would I? Offer compensation
#8: Price does have something to do with quantity. People will and do pay more for less sexual exposure. If you think it’s cool that some providers will take 3+ clients a day then enjoy, it is absolutely each to their own. But no one is paying me enough to increase my risk of cervical cancer. Higher prices for a low volume provider also generally means better service, as the lady has time to rest / better prepare / and have more energy to give you. A constant stream of clients is exhausting, and I found when I was higher volume it was very hard to give a service to the standard that I am capable of.
#9: Not every provider has a social media because many value discretion in the same way that you do for the same reasons that you do. Also why would I let you see my life or ludes/nudes for free.
#10: Generosity, politeness, consideration, and REALITY CHECKING yourself goes a long way.
#11: Put the god damn toilet seat down, put on deodorant, brush your damn teeth
If you conduct yourself against what any of this post warns about. You are pathetic and we view you as such.
Hope This Helps!!!
#1: I take notes of who was kind and respectful or not, who tipped or not, who was unusually difficult, or who tried to push boundaries and get more services than what they paid for. And then I put you on a black list and never see you again. If you are particularly bad I send your number out to forums for other sex workers to put on their black list. Reviews go both ways and the industry is saturated with customers.
#2: Stop assuming every provider lays around waiting for you to message. Screening / scheduling / admin / getting ready all takes time just like in any other profession. Many are only doing this to fund our further studies and business endeavours.
#3: Stop thinking that reviews tell an entire experience. Most are either embellishing or punishing with only one side presented. What I may feel comfortable offering to one client vs another is absolutely different based on hygiene alone. If you are rude/ disrespectful / or just disgusting I will not give you a good service.
#4: Before you go writing reviews bagging a ladies appearance. Give yourself a hard reality check. You are paying her for sex because obviously no one / not many people wants to have sex with you for free. Look at yourself in the mirror. Give yourself an evaluation similar to what you give the ladies and then really think to yourself if you are really that much above her.
#5: Professional photos - for sure I could do them and then instantly charge more for that mirage. If you want to pay more for photoshopped photo girl then, again - that is entirely each to their own. I prefer to keep my overheads as low as possible so that I can charge a better rate for a good service.
#6: You are not going to get the best service if you don’t take the time to get the lady ready for penetration. We are actors - but unlike fake crying, you can’t exactly “fake make yourself horny” if you will lol
#7: You get the time you pay for. It’s not my fault if you choose to talk for half of the time you have paid for. Similarily I will not text with you for free or send you photos leading up to our booking time, why would I? Offer compensation
#8: Price does have something to do with quantity. People will and do pay more for less sexual exposure. If you think it’s cool that some providers will take 3+ clients a day then enjoy, it is absolutely each to their own. But no one is paying me enough to increase my risk of cervical cancer. Higher prices for a low volume provider also generally means better service, as the lady has time to rest / better prepare / and have more energy to give you. A constant stream of clients is exhausting, and I found when I was higher volume it was very hard to give a service to the standard that I am capable of.
#9: Not every provider has a social media because many value discretion in the same way that you do for the same reasons that you do. Also why would I let you see my life or ludes/nudes for free.
#10: Generosity, politeness, consideration, and REALITY CHECKING yourself goes a long way.
#11: Put the god damn toilet seat down, put on deodorant, brush your damn teeth
If you conduct yourself against what any of this post warns about. You are pathetic and we view you as such.
Hope This Helps!!!
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