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[HopeThisHelps]

These are my top handy tips for punters!

#1: I take notes of who was kind and respectful or not, who tipped or not, who was unusually difficult, or who tried to push boundaries and get more services than what they paid for. And then I put you on a black list and never see you again. If you are particularly bad I send your number out to forums for other sex workers to put on their black list. Reviews go both ways and the industry is saturated with customers.

#2: Stop assuming every provider lays around waiting for you to message. Screening / scheduling / admin / getting ready all takes time just like in any other profession. Many are only doing this to fund our further studies and business endeavours.

#3: Stop thinking that reviews tell an entire experience. Most are either embellishing or punishing with only one side presented. What I may feel comfortable offering to one client vs another is absolutely different based on hygiene alone. If you are rude/ disrespectful / or just disgusting I will not give you a good service.

#4: Before you go writing reviews bagging a ladies appearance. Give yourself a hard reality check. You are paying her for sex because obviously no one / not many people wants to have sex with you for free. Look at yourself in the mirror. Give yourself an evaluation similar to what you give the ladies and then really think to yourself if you are really that much above her.

#5: Professional photos - for sure I could do them and then instantly charge more for that mirage. If you want to pay more for photoshopped photo girl then, again - that is entirely each to their own. I prefer to keep my overheads as low as possible so that I can charge a better rate for a good service.

#6: You are not going to get the best service if you don’t take the time to get the lady ready for penetration. We are actors - but unlike fake crying, you can’t exactly “fake make yourself horny” if you will lol

#7: You get the time you pay for. It’s not my fault if you choose to talk for half of the time you have paid for. Similarily I will not text with you for free or send you photos leading up to our booking time, why would I? Offer compensation

#8: Price does have something to do with quantity. People will and do pay more for less sexual exposure. If you think it’s cool that some providers will take 3+ clients a day then enjoy, it is absolutely each to their own. But no one is paying me enough to increase my risk of cervical cancer. Higher prices for a low volume provider also generally means better service, as the lady has time to rest / better prepare / and have more energy to give you. A constant stream of clients is exhausting, and I found when I was higher volume it was very hard to give a service to the standard that I am capable of.

#9: Not every provider has a social media because many value discretion in the same way that you do for the same reasons that you do. Also why would I let you see my life or ludes/nudes for free.

#10: Generosity, politeness, consideration, and REALITY CHECKING yourself goes a long way.

#11: Put the god damn toilet seat down, put on deodorant, brush your damn teeth

#12: If you conduct yourself against what any of this post warns about. You are pathetic and we view you as such.



Hope This Helps!!!

 

[Daviddong]

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[Slayer03]

I wonder who the escort was that wrote this. I laughed at a lot of these, and then alot of these are valid as hell. Then some were just brain rot.
Number 4 had me dying laughing. Some of us punt for the thrill of it…not because we can’t get women. Major facepalm that one lol.

 

[69thehole]

How about you remember you’re selljng a service. If you like about the service that you’re offering (by using photos of other women, by lying about your age etc.) or provide a bad customer experience, you’re going to get a bad review.

Don’t lie and 99% of bad reviews will disappear.

 

[Bonobo]

Lol number 4. It always amuses me when sex workers call us out for engaging in the very behavior they pay the mortgage with. Many of us don't pay for sex. We pay to walk out the door after with the majority of our finances, assets, relationships, mental health and peace of mind intact. But you probably know this.

Yup. Brush your teeth, have a shower, be polite and don't be a a prick. I have seen many sex workers who could also see the dentist however. Plus being slapped on the arse after 2 minutes and being told 'why you no cum yet!!!? ain't fun. Things often work both ways!

I don't see what closing the toilet seat has to do with having sex unless you're actually sitting on it during the act, or you've done something so horrific in there it may follow you out, but whatevs

 

[georgie.pie]

My opinions on the points above:

1. Yes there are bad clients but there are also bad SW! It goes both ways. I’ve read stories of bait and switch, inaccurate profiles, services agreed upon and paid for but then not provided, also of threats by pimps! Even retaliation by brothels when you make a complaint about SW. I’ve personally experience some of the aforementioned too.

“the industry is saturated with customers”, when was this last updated? To my knowledge in this day in age of cost cutting, increase prices, people losing their jobs in all areas of industry, seeing a SW has been cut from a lot of people’s plans (or at least severally reduced).

2. Agreed. But it’s also rude of providers not to reply back or to completely mess up your booking too e.g. bumping into other clients and double bookings

3. Agreed. But isn’t that what a review is? To allow both sides to tell their story and what these forums are for. Also goes both ways, some SW regardless of your good hygiene, discriminate on you based on other factors: your looks, age, weight, ethnicity etc. and you still get a bad service or they do everything to get you out of the door quickly, even though you had paid for a more intimate experience of cuddling, small talk etc.

4. This made me lol! Sometimes people just want sex with no strings attached and now, this does not mean they can’t get it for free. This is one of many reasons punters see a SW. And yes we punters are paying for a service, but there are many cases where that service is not provided.

5. Agreed. But up to the SW if they want to do this or not.

6. I’ve meet many of females that can fake it and make it! So they must be very good actresses indeed. Isn’t that the definition of acting?

7. This is probably a lack of communications on both parties. Some punters are nervous and prefer the SW to take the lead but don’t communicate this, so end up talking. A excellent SW would see this and help them out. While others would just let the clock run out. I always like the SW that asks what would you like?

8. Agreed. Go at your own pace.

9. Agreed.

10. Same goes to the SW. I’ve meet many of SW who were just as rude as stories I’ve heard about punters from SW. I've always been kind, caring, polite, great hygiene with the SW i've been with. But I have still had many of times where I have been screwed over by them. And not in the good way!

11. ??? Many of wives tell their husbands this too, but they don’t. Get one of those auto shutting ones if this is such a concern.

12. Again, same goes to the SW. But of course, the punter is out of pocket as you’ve already taken their money and maybe ran (I’ve had this happen to me too in my years of punting).

 

[Jdjdjs]

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But I bet you still take their money and then have an issue when they give a negative review. If you feel the need to talk down on your so called clientele, maybe this line of work is not for you.