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Getting laid non commercially

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Where do you guys go to find non commercial dating or sexual encounters? Do you hit up the dating apps, if so which ones? Alternatively do you ever ask women you met face to face for dates or sex?
 
NZ Dating always worked for me. That was about 10 years ago. I met quite a few women on there who were happy to "try before you buy." I was looking for a serious relationship but had a lot of fun along the way. It always ended amicably with us agreeing it probably wasn't going to go any further. Or we'd just stop calling or texting each other.

I've also been on Findsomeone which wasn't the same as there you had to pay money to send messages. So you've got mainly people on there who are looking for serious relationships. I've had three long term relationship through Findsomeone. No long term relationships through NZDating.

Asking women for sex is something I've never done. My strategy was to go on dates and maybe after the 2nd or 3rd date try for kissing. And if they responded well to that I would move on to my secret weapon that never failed. Kissing her neck. That always drives them crazy and then next thing either I or them would say "Wanna go to the bedroom?" And then it was all on.
 
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Bumble, Hinge, and Tinder in that order. But you need to have good photos, even paying a photographer helps. If you go over to Aussie half the Aussie girls have professional photos which is kind of weird. But still you can always find fat/old/ugly women on there to fuck for free if you're real desperate 🤣

I did the NZ dating when I was younger like 20 years ago but that shits dead now.

I've heard few guys have success with the meetup groups. That shits kinda weird because you can see whos going to an event so you can see if theres any hot girls going and if not cancel lol. I signed up once but couldn't be fucked trying it out.
 
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I went from nz dating to find someone to Tinder and Bumble. I found the third date kissing on neck trick worked an absolute treat too. However, in the dating apps era I then got first date sex with a few girls. It then sped up my attempts at neck kissing for future dates. Some girls loved it but others prefer waiting and it would scare them off going too soon. It was a big gamble but if it paid off it paid off big.
 
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Haha only problem with the meet up groups is I am sure the girls will work out quickly I am not there for the interests or activities the meet up is meant for. What sort of meet ups did you sign up for? Maybe there is pussy to be found at random hobby meet ups like tiddlywinks.

How has Bumble, Hinge and Tinder gone for you? I heard Hinge is good but I have never used it. I heard you can filter by ethnicity,. Just need an additional filter for if they enjoy receiving rimming and then I could find my best matches easily.
 
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Usually I do it first or second time I go down on them. I always go down on a woman first time I have sex with her to show what type of lover I am so neck kissing to pussy licking can be quick. More often I do rimming second time so can build up some rapport and sniff them first.
 
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I never really bothered with the Meetup but there are some groups that almost seem to be created for dating or meeting singles. There was some dude on here going on about how he got lots of pussy from one of them.

I haven't been on apps for awhile as I'm too busy working and reviewing escorts. I'm quite picky these days, I rather just go blow $300 on some hot escort than fuck a fatty off a dating app for free. Life is too short to fuck fatties.

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You don't want to show your hand two quick. Gotta try and show restraint. Wait until the second time before you savour their tasty anus.
 
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