Review Heavenly Hands / Dita
Review Heavenly Hands / Dita
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I've seen you make unkind and uncalled for comments about women on AF a number of times, particularly more mature women, and I never saw you censured for it once. So I find this an interesting take.
I can honestly say I've never given a 5 minute handjob in a minimum 30 minute booking, even 10 minutes sounds off. I enjoy the teasing and cock massage too much to let you guys off that easy.
Despite all that I regret you didn't enjoy your time with me more, and I apologize for not spending longer on the cock massage. I also took on board your prior feedback a long time ago.
You've made some good points there. In my experience the majority of men won't last long without careful cautious touch, and those who can take a good beating are in the minority.
I couldn't agree more about communication, don't be shy to let us know what you want! I typically only get someone on their knees for play from behind if they're responding well to my stroking of perineum and balls, and admittedly I do it a lot more these days than I used to partly because of Jeff's feedback.
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Somebody said something about cyber bullying?
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OMFG ... this is like listening to an old married couple arguing, @downstairs_diplomat - I totally believe @Jeffrodgers got a crap service because he said so and my experience of exactly the same type of service from novices ... and here's the thing "Lingam massage" has nothing what so ever to do with a guys back, if your massaging a back, brest strokes etc its a normal sensual massage with bodies slides your providing with a HJ. Lingam is Lingam and edging is also another thing closely related to tantric styles of massage and breath techniques to .. well blow your fucking mind climaxing.
So to be fair can those guys that have said you were great describe the services they received? then we will all know what's actually happening as it sounds like you give a great attentive handjob at the end of a sensual massage and not an expected lingam massage which has been expected.
So to be fair can those guys that have said you were great describe the services they received? then we will all know what's actually happening as it sounds like you give a great attentive handjob at the end of a sensual massage and not an expected lingam massage which has been expected.
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Lol@ the guy trying to mansplain the service I specialise in to me.
Tantra involves breathing techniques, however lingam is a cock massage that involves specific grips and techniques and focuses on edging, and can be done without breathing techniques.
In fact actual lingam cock massage was created by Europeans in the 80s who had traveled to India. It isn't some ancient practice with rigid rules, it can be learned by anybody with hands and a smidge of sensuality. If you're paying thousands of dollars to be taught it at some dodgy temple you're being ripped off. Anyone with the motivation and a love of cock massage can research it and learn it themselves.
Including massage and body slide is irrelevant to whether I offer lingam. I do those to relax nervous men and build arousal. In fact body massage helps direct blood to the genitals, heightening sensation. Nor is there a minimum length of time that determines whether it is lingam or not.
Your uninformed opinion does not negate the fact I provide genuine lingam massage.
Tantra involves breathing techniques, however lingam is a cock massage that involves specific grips and techniques and focuses on edging, and can be done without breathing techniques.
In fact actual lingam cock massage was created by Europeans in the 80s who had traveled to India. It isn't some ancient practice with rigid rules, it can be learned by anybody with hands and a smidge of sensuality. If you're paying thousands of dollars to be taught it at some dodgy temple you're being ripped off. Anyone with the motivation and a love of cock massage can research it and learn it themselves.
Including massage and body slide is irrelevant to whether I offer lingam. I do those to relax nervous men and build arousal. In fact body massage helps direct blood to the genitals, heightening sensation. Nor is there a minimum length of time that determines whether it is lingam or not.
Your uninformed opinion does not negate the fact I provide genuine lingam massage.
And it is bloody good. In my opinion of course !
Next time you swing through Welly if things line up will definitely make a booking !
Ooh, nice timing, I'm going to be back in Welly CBD from this Sunday 25th to the 28th, and Petone 29 and 30. I'm excited to going there for the first time and am hoping for a warm welcome
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Sorry, wasn’t aware of the moratorium on comments made in jest.
Cyber bullying is something else again - and involves comments which are vicious, vexatious, often fanciful, and, invariably, made by an individual in a more dominant, or powerful position, relative to the individual being targeted.
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Ok. Well I wouldn't say mansplaining ... but I have provided a reference from Plerplexity ai for all your punters to understand lingam massage. If they read it or run the question themselves, they will clearly see the facts and references.
Perplexity ai
Question: Is lingam a massage and where did it originate ?
Answer : A lingam massage is a type of tantric massage that focuses primarily on massaging the male genitalia, especially the penis (lingam in Sanskrit means "phallus" or "wand of light"). It is designed not only to provide physical pleasure but also to awaken and balance sexual energy, promote relaxation, and foster deeper self-understanding and spiritual connection. The massage often includes stimulation of the penis, testicles, perineum, and prostate, aiming for prolonged pleasure and multiple orgasms rather than a single climax.
The practice originates from ancient India and is deeply rooted in Tantra, a spiritual and holistic philosophy dating back thousands of years (as far as 5000 BCE). Tantra views the body as a temple and sexual energy as a powerful force for spiritual enlightenment and healing. Lingam massage honors the penis as a sacred symbol of divine masculine energy and creative power, often associated with the Hindu god Shiva. Historically, it was part of sensual healing rituals and spiritual practices aimed at unblocking emotional and energetic barriers and awakening Kundalini energy for holistic well-being.
So unless you're giving them multiple climaxes over the period paid by the punters .. your'e simply providing edging HJ at the end and they can all decided for themselves what your doing or not, so far no-one has mentioned prolonged multiple orgasms, I wonder why? I guess your future punters can comment on how fantastic their sessions have become now you know what you should provide under the term "lingam massage" which @Jeffrodgers was expecting to receive for his money and didn't.... "say what you do and do what you say" its simple, you edge and thats ok.
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Jeepers mate, give it a rest!
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Gotta love your measured response to this. Johnny's worth listening to, but his remark above isn't cool.
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You’re probably right - I actually reported my own post, suggesting it wasn’t my finest work.
Oh Goddess, turning to AI now. Well if the internet says it, it must be true!
Climaxing isn't even the point of lingam, it's considered a pleasant side effect of the journey. As a sex worker I place more priority on it than civilians who indulge however as it is expected in this context.
Although I am now curious as to how many times Jeff was expecting or hoping to pop in his 30 minute session
As for where lingam came from, remember those Europeans who went to India? They were inspired by traditional tantra, and developed lingam cock massage from there. But don't take my word for it, let's consult your own source. After asking 'who created lingam massage':
The term "lingam" comes from Sanskrit and simply means "penis," but in ancient Hindu and tantric traditions, the lingam is also a sacred symbol of the god Shiva, representing creation and divine energy . The concept of the lingam as an object of worship and reverence has roots stretching back to the Indus Valley civilization and the worship of Shiva .
However, the specific practice of "lingam massage" as a modern erotic or tantric technique was not invented by any single ancient figure. Rather, it developed as a blend of ancient symbolism and contemporary tantric practices. Some sources credit Andro Andreas Rothe and later Joseph Kramer (along with Taoist Master Mantak Chia) for developing and popularizing lingam massage in its current form in the 1970s and 1980s in the West . These modern teachers adapted and evolved the concept, drawing on ancient tantric and Taoist philosophies.
So, while the lingam has ancient religious and symbolic origins, the massage technique as practiced today is a more recent development influenced by several modern teachers .
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Or you, ours.....
