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Tips to shake off a bad punt

Tips to shake off a bad punt

Jamesboi

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Had a unusual bad experience at a SM joint last week with someone who was rude and had a bad attitude and the vibe was clearly off. Can't name names but the whole experience left me with a $500 sour taste in mouth and darkened my weekend...

Aside from shitposting - any tips for shaking off a bad punt?
 
As lame as it might sound, intense aerobic exercise to clear your head and boost your mood through endorphin release. This is in response to any bad shit in life that is the level below life altering trauma.

Any reason you can't name the agency or provider?
 
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It still seems very expensive for SM + extras. I never request or agree to extras upfront, as they don't (in my experience) occur until the second half... "See how it goes... I'll think about it". And if the vibe is right, then I go for them if I'm in the mood. But I feel for you. Maybe get back on the horse?
 
$300 for oral, touch and kissing (+SM fee) but none of it was that great. Cant recall ever paying that before but SM extra prices are getting out of control. And to have someone act like a giant fucking asshole whilst I'm paying them that is hard to digest. Maybe if I went to TBB/PT more often I'd be used to this kindof fuckery... (this wasn't there though...)
 
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I would definitely contact the house about the poor service and attitude you received. The amount you paid for extras is on you, but there’s no excuse for being treated poorly, especially if it’s the one I’m thinking about- that prides itself on being the best SM parlour in the business. It’s good to mention it to the house too so they can talk to the girl if it’s a reoccurring problem. With the stiff competition in the market, there are plenty of girls around keen to make that kind of money in extras and will be happy to take it with a good attitude.
 
Rule of thumb mate take nothing for granted or assume anything until you know someone. As has already been said have a shorter cheaper no frills booking with someone first and if it looks promising and you click with them make a re-visit with some more bucks in your wallet. There are plenty of SWer's out there that will promise the earth and deliver nothing so due diligence is your friend to find one that promises the earth and delivers the earth
 
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