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How to maintain boundaries

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I've had this with some of my previous partners where they just don't cum but they love it and want it every night. (which is annoying because I just wanna sleep most nights! And if I don't give it to them multiple times a week, they complain I'm not giving them enough. o_O) But I always feel like I've failed, even though they insist that they rarely cum anyway. One even said, no one has ever made her cum. She has to do it herself. Still bugs me though. Feels like I haven't done my job.
 
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AF blows.

It's also useful to remember that these girls are not your friends, or your girlfriend, this is all performance theatre. Most of these girls have dudes they are fucking rawdog for free and usually paying their rent as well (on your dime). When money changes hands, it defines and poisons the relationship forever. I see this in the Sugar scene all the time... Catch feelings in this scene, high chance you are going to regret it....
 
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You are definitely right with this. I guess this thread is all about us sharing and finding ways to maintain boundaries.

In general men are terrible when it comes to communicating how we feel. I had friends where you could freely talk about your feelings. It's human nature to be attracted to someone especially when sex and oxytocin is involved.

Even if that WG is getting piped raw etc those feeling don't just go away. Some of us see sex in a similar light like a handshake. In the same way I can shake anyone's hand I can fuck any human.

Feelings are raw and real it's part of the human pysche.

Most WGs have support groups and us punters we could use this forum in a similar way with the occasional cheeky joke here and there🤣

Some of us also have demons I'm battling from borderline sexual addiction to sexual awakenings you never thought of🤣
 
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