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Sugarbaby/overnight questions
Some one earlier suggested talking to SWers if you have like a regular. Probably the way to go. Might not work with some agency girls though unless they were to end up leaving later on. . My thought is I'd love to take an escort on a cruise so I just brought it up as a hypothetical with one not that long ago, a girl I really seemed to connect with.

Obviously it would have to be really above board (no pun intended) and she'd have to have people know where she was at all times. Which is what I'd expect. Total transparency. But she also told me her agency won't even allow them to go away on all nighters. Because of the security factor. Any outcalls they have there needs to be someone nearby to make sure they're safe. Which is kind of fair enough I guess and I'm glad the agency is doing their best to keep their girls safe.

It would have to be a case of them trusting you and knowing who you are.

Online dating? I had a lot of fun with that for a while. Was meeting a lot of women over a short period. Quality women too! Professionals like a doctor, an architect, a lawyer. Even a couple of school teachers. NZ Dating in particular had a lot of women just after a bit of fun. I figured out a good formula to get myself a lot of coffee dates without days of backwards and fowards messaging. I had plenty of flings and brief romances. Plenty of women happy to do a little "try before you buy" and amicably agree to end things when we decided it wasn't going any further. Had three women I was dating at the same time once until I said goodbye to two because the third was something extra special and we decided to be exclusive.(ended up I picked the wrong one, but that's a whole other story.)
As well as lots of fun I ended up with a couple of legitimate longer-term relationships because of it.

Can't be bothered with it anymore now though. Less work just to pay for an escort. No strings attached. No dramas. Both parties go away happy. I get to be in Heaven for a short while with a gorgeous ass in my face and the woman gets some money in her bank account.
 
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NZdating is dead now. And last time I looked on there was a couple years ago so its already buried I bet. Its all on the apps these days for better or worst. Some of your formulas may still work though
 
I’ve been using Seeking on and off for a few years now, and it’s honestly a mixed bag. There’s a lot of admin involved, messaging back and forth, figuring out who’s real, who’s actually looking for an arrangement, and who’s just wasting time. You’ll run into the classic “coffee meet-up” hustle, where they’ll ask for $100–$300 just to catch up and “see the vibe.” It’s usually just a soft way to get paid without any intention of seeing you again. I don’t bother with that anymore.

You’ll also come across a bunch of girls who are either full-on escorts or just promoting their OnlyFans. Some will ask you to subscribe before even having a proper conversation. And then, plenty won’t reply at all, ghosting is standard there, so don’t take it personally.

And then there are the agency-run profiles. It’s not like different names using the same pictures, it’s usually a bunch of different girls from the same photo shoot. You’ll see the same background, same style, same photographer vibe. It’s super obvious once you notice it. They’re not necessarily fake, but you can tell it’s not as personal or direct.

Price-wise, yeah, it varies. One-offs might be around $500-$1000, and then you’ve got the girls asking for $2K or even $3K. But that 3K price point? It’s usually based on how hot they think they are not necessarily on what the experience is worth. And honestly, most of the time, it’s just not worth it unless you’re really into that kind of thing. You're paying top dollar for looks, but the connection and experience can still fall flat.

As for overnights, it’s not something that happens instantly. You usually need to build some trust first, maybe take them out once or twice. But it also depends on how desperate the day is. $$$ can move things quicker. It’s hit or miss.

Funny thing is, I’ve actually found some of the same girls from Seeking on Tinder and Bumble. So sometimes it’s easier to just go straight to those apps. You can be a bit more direct, ask upfront about arrangements, and avoid all the Seeking platform drama. And sometimes you’ll even get lucky and not have to pay anything upfront, it all depends on your approach and the vibe.

So yeah, if you’ve got patience and know how to read the signs, you can make it work. But it’s definitely not as clean or easy as it looks from the outside.
 
It was more that I was overwhelmed by the realization that a significant amount of ladies on the dating apps would be open to letting any old guy fuck them for the right amount of money. But I suppose that's how the world works... 90% of them would let me piss on their faces for a 1 million dollars 🤣
 
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In my case I don't have regulars, I usually see an escort 3-4 times max if I really like them as I like the variety. I also usually just go to the two main agencies down here. I was so confused to see you speak about NZdating only to realize you were speaking about like 10 years ago lol.
 
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Well my premium is over. What a unfulfilling experience. I have high standards which I guess didn't help. I would estimate there's only 15-20% if that on there that I found attractive. Actually had a few ummm bigger woman show interest but I just ain't into that man lol. The ones I was interested in mostly just don't reply.

Definitely noticed a few escorts on there. Some woman pretend their looking for a SD but really just selling content FFS. Thought I was making progress with one chick. Took convo to another app, then she tells me she wants to be paid before meeting. Sends me back account details unprompted. I told her firmly I won't be paying before meeting and it looks like she's trying to scam. Her excuse was she needs to get her hair and nails done to look good for me. Wtf! Now sending me pics everyday. Actually might need to block her. Sad part is the grift must work on some of these sad, lonely fuckers otherwise she wouldn't be doing it.

Talked to one chick, who told me guys offer all kinds of fucked up shit like weed, threesomes etc from the first message. Like 50+ years olds and shit with these offers some of these dudes are weird lol.

I was finally able to sign up to seeking, think it was asking me for ID since I was trying through vpn. Many of the same woman on there (must be nice being able to use those sites for free). Doesn't really seem to have many more active people on there. The price for 1 month premium is $130 usd! Which I think is ridiculous.

My sugarbaby seeking experience has been a total failure. not sure how to proceed now haha.
 
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If you can arrange a hotel meet up close to the viaduct that finishes by like 10.00pm-11.00pm on a Friday or Saturday, the room is available for picking up some random club girls (who seem to love 5 star rooms within walking distance and the buffet breakfast).

Fully agree on lots of time wasters on there though.
 
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