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It ain't easy being big

It ain't easy being big
Big D

Big D

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So I've been learning recently that being big is not always an advantage. 😢 Great when it comes to girlfriends but maybe not so much with sex workers.

I've found these issues in recent times:
Can't find anyone who can deepthroat me.
Sometimes when you're ready to strap up, the SW has to leave the room to find a bigger condom.
Sometimes the girl needs lube which decreases the friction and makes it harder to cum.
Aren't even going to enquire about anal!
Can be uncomfortable for the girl when having sex so they avoid bookings with you or try to get you to book later after they've already seen a few clients.

Hopefully SWs themselves can chime in here. But also my fellow punters who might have experienced similar or have an opinion. All comments welcome

To the ladies:
Do you prefer to have clients with smaller wangers? Or ones with larger ones?

To the men:
Has your tool ever been a disadvantage when it comes to a session with a SW?
Have any stories?
Have any inside knowledge from SWs themselves?
 
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Years ago , often had issues with very young tight Chinese and Korean girls . Most of them were students and not used to western willys . I am between 6.5 to 7 inches , so not as big as some . Often these girls were young students between 18 - 24 trying to pay uni fees , rent etc . Apart from back then no problems generally because they are older . Western girls never a problem , would say because are used to our size .
 
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It's not the sword, it's the soldier who wields it. A fella who goes straight to 100, no warm up, can be unpleasant at any size. At an XL, it can be downright scary. A gent with an XL who has taken the time to learn some sexpertise and doesn't just rely on his size to do all the work can be a hell of a ride.

My only other contribution to this is that I have a friend in this industry who sent me a picture with her whole fist in her mouth with the caption "I love a challenge" after we'd been discussing a legendary sized dong I'd encountered. A month passes, the opportunity arises, and lo and behold! She could deepthroat aforementioned legendary dong. I'm both awed and intimated by her God level throat game to this day. So don't worry Big D, there's a throat goat out there for you somewhere.

P.S. Lube should be used freely and frequently at all sizes, for both the ladies comfort and safety but also because it prevents condoms ripping.
 
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I'd have no issues sharing with most gents who she is however after some of the conversations I've read on this lovely platform, I can't in good conscious be name dropping a friend of mine here. Some of the language I've witnessed has been downright venomous and completely non proportional to that chats at hand. Brings forth images of meat and wolves, or virgins and sacrificial alters etc.
 
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This one is actually one you can front foot when you're booking ☺️ Just request a specific condom size when confirming. I wouldn't say anything generic like "biggest condom size" because most would assume you're talking yourself up, but being more specific with the brand and type or even the nominal width of your usual condom can go a long way.* Alternatively you can offer to bring a new and sealed box of your preferred condoms.

The other upside of doing this is she knows ahead of time what she's in for, and can either prepare accordingly or cancel the booking if she can't handle it.

*IMO, everyone should know their ideal nominal width, and WGs should know what the term means. Its leads to better sex for everyone, and less chance of slips and breaks.
 
I saw one lady at Bella Nova years ago that was an absolute monster when it came to head game. I had a look to see if she was still there when I first saw this thread but apparently they've closed down and she has disappeared. I don't even remember her name 😭
 
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Skyn Large is the equivalent to Gold Knights green range 56mm width :) the Gold Knight XL’s are the ones we use and are 64mm in diameter! As my lovely friend Ivy said above, lube definitely helps prevent slips and splits so it’s best for all parties 😄
 
I personally definitely prefer a heads up when it comes to someone with size. As someone mentioned above, having knowledge of what condoms usually fit you, or if you’ve seen other workers and know what colour condom you used with us then that’s super helpful so I can prepare, too! I get a little surprised when I ask clients if they know what condom size they use and they don’t know this information.

Agree that there’s a fine line between genuine size concerns and just gassing yourself up, by default I’m usually a bit dismissive if I haven’t met someone before, because often guys are just trying to dirty talk with me. So the condom size would certainly reassure me a bit there.

When it comes to work specifically, sure, small to mid makes life easier sometimes. Like my lovely friend Ivy said above too, if someone comes in with a decent girth/length and comes in like a bull in a china shop, it’s a lot to deal with and can often hurt me. That can happen with any size, though. The large lads just have a higher chance of tearing me if they rush into things 😅 also I personally prefer an hour with someone if they are well endowed too as half an hour can feel a bit rushed and it’s harder for me to relax properly to allow for size in times like that. Either way, I love a good time and have minimal gag reflex so it’s not usually an issue for me. Just the heads up is always helpful so I can mentally prepare! 😂
 
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