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What’s the one bedroom tip everyone should know but nobody talks about?

I used to have one trick I would use while fucking girls missionary I would reach around under the legs and very gently do some anal play. And no I didn't ask for consent as that would ruin the mood! Then I would slip my finger in and double penetrate them. They use to love it. I did it with an escort one time and pulled my finger out and she told me to put it back in LOL. Then one time I did it with some girl I briefly dated who had hemmeroids and complained I made her bum so stopped doing it after that.
 
Yes. It's very obvious there sure are different types of guys on this forum.
Asking a new partner during sex if she is ok if you pull her hair or slap her butt or whatever before you do it is far sexier than just ripping into it without her consent. Especially if it is sticking your finger in her butthole without checking she's into butt play.
That's a total dick move in my book.
If she's into it, she'll be glad you asked and let you know. If she isn't, you have just ruined what could have been a great session.

If that makes me a white knight, whatever. The world could do with a few more guys like that.
 
2 things Johnny if its not consented they will soon let you know then you desist. Quite a few like it. And in my experience most are ok. Hygiene it's not a problem wash up afterwards. Where is it different from all these prostate massages. ? I doubt the punters are going along with as you say a prepared arsehole.
 
You just go slow and with the flow and if they don't want you to do it they will let you know pretty quick. It's obviously not appropriate to just jam it in there or something. Not all of us are so inept at picking up on a ladies responses that we require the signing of consent forms beforehand. God imagine a world without surprises, spontaneity, and excitement.
 
I'll also point out it was a trick I did with girlfriends or girls I was dating. I did it ONCE with a sex worker who was particularly enthusiastic and kinky who thoroughly enjoyed it and was only unpleased when I stopped and demanded I continue.

I was hoping this was going to be a juicy exciting thread about sex tricks and techniques to please ladies during sex. Instead it has become some high school sex education class on consent.
 
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I love reading pages and pages of rules on an ad. The longer and more detailed the better. Then when I text after complying with all the information, it's being sent several screenshots of said rules back to me asking if I had read them and circling in all the important points. When I confirm I have indeed read them all and am still interested, it's sending me bullet points of the rules again, ideally with more screenshots of the rules, which I have already read and agreed to, and I confirm again I have read and agreed to. When I finally arrive it's sitting me down to talk about new rules that weren't in the ad, and reminding me of the rules I had already read and asking me to confirm that I did read them, and that I understood. This is quadruple boundaries and consent I'm talking about.

A bonus is laying down a cheap Kmart scratchy towel on the bed. Finally some soft pillow talk afterwards with her complaining about all the dudes who didn't read the rules.
 
Slight rant incoming. This is supposed to be a place where punters discuss fucking prostitutes, a bit of humour. Tales of dodgy evenings we are only willing to speak on anonymously.
Lately there seems to be a big uptick in feminine energy on the forums. A lot of judgement on what people post.
''Anal play, thats neither sanitary nor hygienic'' GTFOH with that.
As far as ''consent'' they will let you know QUICK. I was playing around the outside of a WGs asshole in doggy one time. She was into it. I went to advance, as soon as she felt pressure ''Sorry Hun, no penetration just keep doing what you were doing'' and we continued. No harm no foul.
 
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I think you will find that the bulk of women appreciate and find consent sexy. How you managed to turn consent and communication into a negative and even a mocking point is pretty gross IMO.

Finding out what really gets a woman going rather than not caring, assuming or merely focussing on our own desires is a sure fire way for you BOTH to have a good time. But perhaps them actually enjoying it and feeling comfortable is unimportant to you.
 
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Hopefully we're just taking this out of context. Having providers on the forum is good for understanding other perspectives, as long as they keep the marketing in check.

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I think this is unrelated to feminine energy. Some people don't like faecal bacteria and others don't mind, but it's independent of whether you're a provider or a client.

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What @Slippin Joey said was unconsented. Depending on the details, this sounds more like asking for consent in a non-verbal way, and respecting the response. But it isn't so cool if the provider isn't hair-trigger prepared to enforce boundaries.
 
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There are some men that are so desperate for validation from females, even the sex worker variety, that they will use a discussion such as this as a chance to earn a few brownie points with random escorts online that they haven't booked and probably will never book. It's called simping and its pathetic. In my opinion it's a good way to ruin what was poised to be a fun, good, and exciting discussion. As soon as I read it I rolled my eyes in disgust and was overwhelmed by a strong sense of disappointment with the realization that the discussion had been ruined. Communication and consent is probably the thing that is talked about the most, so it would be fair to say it falls outside of the "nobody talks about" criteria of this thread. I would also add there are multiple forms of communication and touch is one of them, as Adrian suggested. I think you can find out what gets a women going without actually sitting down with a clipboard, checklist, and consent form beforehand as it seemed to be suggested. Somehow I don't think many women would find that very sexy in practice, despite their strong feelings around "consent".

If the tables were turned I know I would lose interest in sensual massages pretty quick if the masseuses sat me down before hand and gave me a play by play of everything she was going to do to me before hand in as part of gaining my consent. Personally I find it a thrill to just let her do her thing so that its a pleasant surprise if they do something new or unique. Unexpected ball or anal play? Amazing. But back to the point of consent, to be frank I literally can't remember the last time a women, whether sex worker or not, actually asked for my consent before doing something sexual to me. Instead they just play it by ear and go with the vibe. No that doesn't automatically mean they are going to do something that is going to hurt the client or do something against their will. Some of you sound like you campaign against the wrapping of Christmas presents in your spare time.
 
In a futile attempt to salvage this thread... a long time ago sex worker once taught me how to push down on a ladies back while in doggy to make her angle her back more for greater pleasure. But as a lot of you guys know the ladies vary in how much of an angle they can take.
 
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