Relationship with a WG

[White Paper Fan]

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would any punters be open to dating a WG?
have any punters become friends with a WG?
very curious about your experiences...

 

[JohnnyPunter]

It's not worth it. I went on a few dates with a girl used to be a sex worker. I met her on tinder. She didn't tell me until like the second date, and I figured I'd keep seeing her mainly cause I wasn't looking for anything serious. She had a lot of mental and psychological problems from working and had been having a lot of therapy. She was a full service girl as well so maybe sensual massage girls dont have it as bad. This was when I was a bit younger and living at home and invited her around on the third date and she kept saying "I'm not going to meet your dad am I?". I got the idea that she was scared that he was a former customer lol. Maybe it's happened to her before.

Anyway it was her idea to come back to my place and I assumed we were going to hook up but she had intimacy issues. It was like she had difficulty having sex unless she was getting paid for it. So I ended up lying in bed with blue balls unable to sleep because I was so sexually frustrated. Then she told me her working girl name and asked if I would like to hire her. Maybe I should have? At least I would have got a root. But I declined. I was kinda bummed out she was trying to squeeze money out of me and to be honest she wasn't that good looking. She left shortly after that in the middle of the night and I didn't see her again. She was a can of worms.

Another girl I briefly dated I suspected may have been a sex worker but she never said so and I didnt date her long. She told me that she slept with her ex boyfriends dad before she met and started dating her ex. And there were some other hints. If she had been a sex worker she was much better off mentally than the first girl.

I wouldn't recommend anyone date a sex worker. And I think its pretty rare that they will actually want date a punter, although it does happen. Most sex workers are turned off if they know you have paid for sex before, it's like they put men in two categories or something.

Sounds like you are lonely and looking for love in the wrong places lol. Maybe try getting on Tinder or something. It's not that hard to meet women if you are willing to lower you standards lol

 

[Slippin Joey]

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Best avoided Mr Fan.
Friends are ok but if you are fucking her then it's not just friends is it ? It will be difficult to keep it just as friends.
If you are paying to fuck her it's a business transaction.
And then when you are not around you will know other men are fucking her. Very difficult for a man to live with that. You will become jealous and resentful.
She will be seeing other men better looking than you, bigger cock than you, better shape than you, more money than you and so on.
And bear in mind she is a sex worker and will very likely string you along if there is a benefit for her.
You might even feel a connection but at the end of the day you will eventually be discarded.
If you become emotionally involved it will only end badly for you.
If you can keep it as a dinner or 2 all good ok - but steady girlfriend no.

 

[lllllllll]

Proper relationships and business should be very far apart. Knowingly dating a working girl? If anyone is seriously considering this, you are already a lost cause and nothing I say is going to change your mind.

 

[Simplesimon]

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mmm - i have had the opposite experience - dated an ex worker - she quit to be with me. We had a great time together - she was fun, genuine, funny, smart and great company - and completely with it - the only issue i had with her was her love for korean drama on netflix lol. It was great but ultimately what killed it was trust issues - on both sides. She kept in touch with some of her customers - just as friends is what she said but i really dont know and on my side - she thought i was a punter and would always punt. But her libido was twice mine and she had absolutely no issues or hangups at all - just a great person. I am sorry it didn't work - her decision but dont write them off for fear of lots of baggage - not always the case