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Whoever it is off of these forums messaging me for *******.
I don’t do *******, never have, never will.
Other than it being illegal, it’s incredibly unsafe and gross.
If you wish to risk your sexual health, you need to be hitting up the streets.

And for all the girls offering ******* services, get a grip! It isn’t safe, healthy or hygienic, and needs to stop.
If you’ve hit a point where offering ******* is the only way you get clients; then it is time to hang up the lingerie.

Its damaging to our industry, it’s damaging to your health, and it adds extra layers of risk to an already risky occupation.
 
And of course your target audience won't be reading this. And if by chance any did they wouldn't care.

The other thing is ******* sex is like illegal drugs. There wouldn't be drugs if there wasn't a market for them. Same goes for ******* sex services.
 
Let's face it, safe sex and condoms are NOT sexy. How often do you see them used in porn? No one really wants to watch porn with condoms on. Also how many male-female couples use condoms in the bedroom? Most probably don't, at least not for all pentrative sex acts. But that doesn't mean we shouldn't use them when engaging in prostitution. But let's face it, if that shit was actually sexy then you wouldn't have so many men asking for and offering to pay more for n@tural services.

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Well we get some sex worker whinging about it every week. And usually they are so worked up about it because they know other sex workers out there are doing it and charging extra for it. They are angry the other workers are getting much more bookings and money.

It's a bit strange of you to compare n@tural sex to illegal drugs. Since n@tural sex is perfectly legal and probably the most common form of sex. Condoms and safe sex is the unn@tural thing. N@tural It is only illegal in the sex industry. Although your comparison kind of works there as some providers sell it, like illegal drugs, and it brings them lots of money. Boo hoo.
 
grubby stuff for sure and they shouldn't be asking but i'm not really surprised they are asking you.

As @FullyShaved says, there's a market and between your constant advertising on here, your willingness to accept allcummers, and that your ads say things like 'a vast array of extras' and 'contact me to find out what i can do for you', those who are on such forums looking for that will probably infer it's worth an ask.

Perhaps consider putting 'strictly no *******' on your ad if the volume of enquiries is so hard to manage. I guess that wouldn't be as interesting though.

Also, why do you think street workers are below you? you could get this more easily on seeking or other sugar daddy sites if you were looking for it.
 
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That's a good point kenny. If she doesn't want people to enquire about n@tural services, in particular n@tural oral, then she should state so in her ad. I noticed that she writes a few things that some punters may interpret to be subtle hints she is open to N.B.J.

"vast array of extras"
"I love being able to please people with my mouth, words, tongue, and much more"

No where does she mention safe sex or that she doesn't do n@tural services. Probably because she knows it is unsexy and she will get less enquiries. At the very end she writes "safe" but I read it to mean a safe premises.

I'm sure she practices sexy safe sex and uses a dental damn for all cunnilingus and rimming every single time. Otherwise she would be nothing more than a despicable hypocrite.
 
Most men don’t even read the ad, and will quite often ask for specifics you have clearly stated are a no. So let’s. E honest, stating it there isn’t going to stop men from asking. Saying I am amazing at my job and giving pleasure doesn’t automatically equal bareback. It means I’m good at my job, I’m so good at my job that men don’t even notice the condom is there. And considering I can put said condom on with my mouth, has certainly had many men tell me that was sexy.
Condoms can in fact be sexy, though that’s down to individual feelings.
 
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I can assure you, no man has ever thought that condoms are in any way sexy. A necessary evil, at most. I have personally forsaken them for life, hence my preference for SM and the sugaring/mistress/GF/thing or whatever the fuck it is I do.

Interestingly, on the many, many occasions I have begun “dating” a sex worker (it’s kind of my thing), the condoms are immediately dispensed with. I remember once being admonished for inquiring about a dick diaper/joy killer – “They’re for clients, not for us!” Such beautiful words; such a fine distinction.

So, by all means, keep yourself safe and legal, and delude yourself if you must.
 
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NZPC are a funded collective, but they are not the arbiter as to the interpretation of the PRA - that function is reserved for the courts.

Interestingly the NZPC website has this;

‘Everyone; including brothel operators, receptionists, clients, and sex workers, must take all reasonable steps to ensure safe sex is practiced. It is important to use condoms and/or dental dams for vaginal, oral, and anal sex.’

Whereas, the PRA stipulates that condom use is compulsory in acts of penetrative sex, the NZPC only states ‘it is important to use condoms ….’

If you want to know what is required, in terms of the law, look at the PRA, not NZPC material.
 
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