Fair enough, can see that being a factor many punters aim for, im still a selfish bastard however. If im close im definitely just nutting
im too impatient to edge myself waiting for them to get close during the sesh, i’ll just aim for it when im on my 2nd shot or if im a really horny bastard on the day then the 3rd & 4th shot
Actually, it doesn't have to be a dilemma. As I (and others) have said above, edging can be problematic, and can lead to me having difficulties nutting at all. However, @Tighthead33 is referring to fingering, and in that case, or oral pleasuring, there is no issue with edging. So part of my strategy is to to as much pleasuring as I can before letting the girl start on me. If fact, I often find myself pushing her hand away from my cock when I'm doing oral or digital work, or just kissing, and telling her to slow down with the BJ, otherwise I can lose sensitivity through overuse.
I was always wanting a threesome with Jacinda and our… I mean a Chinese nanny. That would be hot.
@Banana I've never booked less than an hour for FS. I think the average time to orgasm for women is 15-20 mins of stimulation (whichever works for them, some need clitoral, others g-spot or both) so I can't see how it is possible for a provider to do anything other than fake if your booking is, say, 30 mins or less. I suppose the main question is do women get sensitized to stimulation and it appears not so if you get the stimulation right she will cum. Of course it is not entirely autonomic or inevitable but I reckon if she likes what you are doing and you're doing it right she will cum and if you listen (verbal and body language) to her and keep doing the right things she will keep cumming and maybe squirt if you get it right!! I'm not saying there isn't acting involved and I suspect that this is where sensitization kicks in. My view is that what SWs do get sensitized to is the intensity of the orgasm so over time with stimulation the intensity can lessen so this is where acting comes in to make the customer happy. Probably all bullshit but my thoughts.
Yes, experienced a few times the "clamp" from the least expected ones too i.e. the quiet and shy ones. Felt nice.
I always book an hour or more as I hate the rush and enjoy foreplay on the girl, you are right probably take at least 15mins to get the engine going sometime but I much prefer spenting the time than the fake and excessive moans.
It turns some of us weirdo's on when they come
Sounds like a passage from an eighties edition of ‘Cosmopolitan’. Female ‘time to orgasm’ is highly variable, and dependent on a myriad of factors.
Nothing wrong with that too, everyone approach it differently and I like your expensive masturbation analogy
Try and get them first punt, and if she is a regular, first punt after she has had a few days off. Often their orgasms are more intense and sometimes they may orgasm more than once.
Sure. It takes a bit of encouragement and trust. One time I managed to get a girl warmed up enough with some oral that she took over and was fucking her pussy with one hand and stimulating her clit with the other. It was super hot to be able to tell her: "Come on baby, fuck yourself..."...
Yes, that's my usual approach. I'm quite happy to start with some kissing then spend whatever time is necessary for her to get off. If she's obviously had a good time with the oral it's easier for me to just concentrate on my own enjoyment when I put my cock in.
Go on then, who is your favourite WG to fist?
Damn was hoping for an Auckland girl!
