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I'll give my two cents here because I've been through a lot of the situations described here... I cut out porn a long time ago, and after a few months without it you realize how damaging porn can be to sex... without it, masturbation also decreases considerably, and if I know that in 2 or 3 days I'm going to have sex with someone, when I wake up with a boner, or have it at night whatever, I masturbate until I'm close to ejaculating... and I stop. Repeat this for 2, 3, 4 days and go for sex, it's amazing...
Even if you dont do that, without porn and a lot of masturbation your energy increases a lot!!

Another thing that helped me in the past was dating the ex-girlfriend of a friend of mine who was a tantric massage instructor. She learned a lot from him, and so did I. Living with her for almost 3 years, I received A LOT of massage... very focused on taking your penis out of its center of pleasure. Often, this meant receiving a handjob outside the norm, with movements out of rhythm and far from the pattern you're used to. This way, you distance yourself from that mechanical porn/HJ pattern, and your body begins to learn to reach greater peaks of pleasure, for longer, and in many different ways...

I'm just simplifying the whole thing, but it's amazing what we can achieve when we step outside the conventional...
 
I always eat Celery to prevent my uric acid from spiking (Gout - lifestyle shit). If Celery is one way to get you hard, then I am fucked.
 
Some time ago when I first started looking at escort sites the idea that I could actually meet these ladies in the flesh and have sex with them just like the porn I had watched became a powerful magnet. Actually having sex with these women in the flesh as opposed to sitting in front of a computer and having sex in my imagination.

Since transitioning to the real thing porn no longer has the same allure. For sure from time to time I may have a look, though funnily prefer pics to the videos. Seeing WGs in the flesh is far more expensive and it can be addictive but I think it is healthier for the mind as not only the physical but sometimes the emotional needs are satisfied as well. Something porn could never do. Plus it is far more ******* and satisfying doing it for real, even though orgasms are not always forthcoming.
 
Weirdly I have the opposite problem, with non sw I want it to last for ever and them to be really impressed however with a sw whether it's full sex or a massage I let go and allow me to be the one that's being pleasured.

Anticipation of being with a sw really helps too
 
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Yeah and sometimes that is just how it pans out. But generally I am there for a sensual and erotic experience so I want to extend the pleasuring of them and of me. While I may not orgasm, or feel like orgasming, the feeling of a woman pleasuring me, and me pleasuring her is invigorating. The sounds, smells, tastes, movements are all part of that exciting experience, and I want to feel that for as long as I can.

And when you have diminished repeat capacity and you are on longer than a 1 hour booking you definitely want to save your finale towards the latter part of the booking not for the start!
 
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Give the experience a chance, my friend.

3, 5 days or a week before sex, or a massage... once a day (or more) when you feel horny and have an erection (for me it ends up being better in the morning when I wake up), slowly masturbate until you're close to ejaculating... and stop.

Do it and then tell me what you thought of the orgasm after doing this practice. I don't do it all the time, only sometimes.

Technical or spiritual explanations? I lack them, but I learned and started testing these things a long time ago when I had close contact with groups that studied tantric massage...

there are several reasons to avoid ejaculating all the time, as well as to "build up" this energy by manipulating it through masturbation without ejaculating.

The real value of this? I don't know, I'm not fucking Osho, but it's really amazing an orgasm where you release a ridiculous amount of cum and almost faint from so much pleasure. :)
 
I remember one time I visited a girl for SM, and I had visited her a few times before, I did this thing for a week.

I arrived on the day of the massage with my penis getting rock hard at the slightest sexual thought... I asked her to go slowly, especially to slow down near orgasm... instead of letting myself go, I continued breathing and feeling the orgasm slowly coming...

it's very nice to only ejaculate when you completely lose control (when you already have some control) and in a gentle way, not with a quick, forceful masturbation... at the end the girl was amazed and said "my god, how long has it been since you came? I thought you'd never stop." 🤣
 
when I go to a SM, I only go if I haven't ejaculated at least for a week... as for the practice of masturbating without ejaculating for days, it's been a while since I've done it;

it's something that takes some work, it's not as easy as it seems.
 
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