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The unfourtuante PE thread

The unfourtuante PE thread
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simonED

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Hi Chaps,

For those in a similar boat how do you handle PE, I am 50 am never been able to cure it or extend beyond 1-2 max. Any creams or methods your might reccomend? BTW I can;t go again so there is no point tugging it before hand as I simply can't go again untill a day or two has passed.

Its at a point where I don't bother booking FS as it is a complete waste of time as once its in its gone straight away. Even the old R&T and its still a minute or so.

Thanks.
 
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Quick-draw Simon, there is a product by the name of Priligy, which is a fast acting SSRI - selective serotonin re-uptake inhibitor - which is prescribed specifically for PE. Or you could go to your GP complaining of depression and ask to be put on a funded SSRI.

I can’t comment on the efficacy of either option as it’s not a problem I have.

Sounds like a genuine bummer. Best of luck finding a remedy.
 
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Not quite in the same boat as that but longevity used to be a problem and still is under certain circumstances.

With age I am a one shot wonder too.

I have always put it down to sheer excitement or anxiety. Forbidden fruits, fantasy, esteem, etc. Behavioral therapy (edging etc.) didn't generalize for me so that was useless. Just suppresses the problem in my opinion.

The thing that has helped for me is ... regulars. I have moved away from novelty (never seeing the same person twice) to looking for people who I can relax with.

For the small number of regulars I see (over a period of nearly two years now) initial bookings didn't last long but with some rapport, like mindedness, and connecton ... the anxiety falls away and PE isn't a problem.

Occasionally I will opt for novelty and the old anxiety and excitement betrays.

Not to get too Freudian but in my case I think it stems from (my own) family attitudes to sex growing up.

But ... don't give up. Get professional help if need be.
 
Agree with Play it again Sam. Without being a professional psych, sounds like an issue rooted in anxiety which of course has an underlying issue(s). Have you tried tantric lingham massage? This is technique to slow yourself down to help with better control. Visit Ellie who occasionally advertises on NZG. She’s a lovely English MILF who provides this service. You can google tantric lingham massage for other providers too. There are a few. Hope this helps. Good luck.
 
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Hmm. Sympathy. I've never had that problem, but, as I get older have the opposite problem of difficulty finishing. Obviously, both of these extremes hinder enjoyment.

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I suspect that in many cases, premature- or non-ejaculation does involve some sort of anxiety, which will likely be very specific to the individual. A professional may well have enough experience with different clients to be able to offer useful suggestions. Unfortunately, the rest of us only have our own experiences to go on, which unfortunately may not be relevance to yours...
 
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