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Actively Punting - STREAKS ??

Actively Punting - STREAKS ??
I lost my virginity to a SW when I was 17 years old. :LOL: Back in the days where brothels were still illegal and were under the guise of massage parlours.
Looking back I now realise that particular SW wasn't worth the money I paid. But oh well. I had no clue at the time. I just wanted to lose my virginity!
I wasn't sure what I was getting myself into. I just wanted to check out a massage parlour and get a nude massage. Maybe more if it was possible. And I then while the girl was massaging me she asked me "Why did you come here tonight." I replied, "I wasn't sure. I'd heard rumours about places like this and was curious. And I heard some massage parlours, the girls do extras." Then she says "yes, we do, do extras" And it I was like "Yes please!" I told her i was a virgin but she didn't make it special for me. But that's okay. I wouldn't have expected her to. In fact the orgasm seemed like a real let down to me. My thought was, I get that when I masturbate! :ROFLMAO:

Going to escorts was not something I started doing regularly until a lot later on when I was earning some decent money. Somewhere around the mid 2000s. But not while I was in relationships. So there were long periods where I didn't see SWs. I've been pretty active with the punting over the last 6 months though. Finding out how to get what I really want. I've learnt quite a few things over the last few years.

1) After trying heaps of girls what urges you to try new girls
I tend to like variety so I don't usually go to the same girl more than a couple of times. But I've recently found some that I really like and they're the best. So I want to keep going back to see them. They feel like my secret girlfriends.

2) according to you what would you consider worth spending money on a girl
I normally go for GFE or VIP. Standard services were often a let down. and it took me too long to figure that out.
Also I'm over $200 Asian girls. Tired of the fake profiles and B&S. Most of them are too skinny for my liking anyway.
I'm a buttman so the girl has to have a big or at least a great shaped ass. Skinny butts? no way! There's gotta be shape. They've gotta be spankworthy and something you really want to do a rim job on.
I used to love the South American women because of their body shapes, but trying to communicate with them became a bit old. Hardly any of them understand English! It's so hard to explain what you want from them!
The girls I'm looking for are ones who are flirty, fun, give playful banter and who give great eye contact. Eye contact is such a turn on and I've come across a few lately who are great with that. They've got to put on a good act. At least pretend they're into you.
I'm usually willing to pay a little for extras. I normally go for showering together and French kissing. But just recently I did my first dress up extra and man that was just so fucking hot!
 
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I've been at it for about 10 years. I am married but we are not intimate anymore (we're both still good though - sensory thing for the lack of sex) and I don't want another relationship so I took up punting to fill the physical void without ever worrying about "falling in love" with the other woman or vice versa (a second relationship - don't want it, don't need it). I enjoy my time, live out the fantasy for however long and part ways without worrying about texts, gifts or dinners... I have lovely times with amazing WGs and then go back to my awesome life.

I prefer to have a couple tiers of regulars I see, varies a lot depending on what I am feeling at the time of booking - the hot girl, dirty girl, raunchy MILF, the nice one that chats a lot etc. My roster of regulars really varies looks-wise, as I have found who I click with way more of a turn on for me than a supermodel starfish. I see WG MILFs who would put the 20 year old sz 6 new model looking girl to shame (just a generalisation, not pointing at anyone specifically).

I'll sprinkle a newbie in there every now and then as my roster shifts over time (girls leave/retire, agencies close etc)..

I hold off seeing the "new to the business" girls until I see a review but if I'm feeling froggy, I might take the plunge every now and then and be that first review.
 
Well I'm a newbie - since November 2024. I'm still in that phase where it's just pure amazement and wonder - I feel like I'm searching for something but I don't know what. I've already found a few SWs that I really like. It means a lot to me to make those connections. Life is too short - I have no regrets about what I am doing.

In reply to the bit about whether wives know/support it - that question interests me too. I would like to be honest about seeing SWs with my wife and am working towards it in some ways. But sharing that information with her should be for the right reasons - if your wife can't or won't give you what you want then confronting that fact with her doesn't seem to lead to a good avenue I'm thinking. My current working theory is that the concept of monogamy is the problem. I suppose I should add that I didn't mind being monogamous when my wife was meeting most of my sexual needs. But then there are the needs that never get met - and the desire to explore and meet other women (that usually you might suppress). So over time one might stray even if their wife is a good fuck. If my wife was supportive of me seeing SWs then I'd find it hard not to push the envelope further and encourage her into other things like swinging etc. Have tried all that and SWs are the only sexual medication I get. Hopefully this can be sustainable.
 
On and off since the late 90's.
I prefer the thrill of seeing a new girl and am usually a poor planner so I have to book who is available at the time that I am in the mood.
I have tried all different levels, ethnicities, locations, countries.
Experience means I usually have a good time.
 
Been doing this for 3 years now, time has flown by. I would say on average about 4 - 5 punts a week. I like sticking with my regulars, but because I punt so often I do get to experience the new ladies too.

Like some others have said it's the thrill of expectation that makes it all so exciting.
 
been enjoying this hobby for about 20 years now

same as some others have said, nothing beats that expectation of the process
whittling down who you want to see and who may be avalable when you are
getting in contact, arranging the time and then best of all, turning up at the door knowing that within 5 minutes your going to be naked in front a of a complete stranger and whats going to follow.
I've tried most types of women and like to enjoy the variety - if I wanted a relationship I'd get back into one - this is about fun and yes, as I've got older, the opportunity to have sex with sexy younger women without any complications
 
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Yeah I realised that I'm quite fortunate in my position. Though I would say the only thing I am very poor on is time. I'm lucky to make a great living, and have several properties and investment portfolios all locked in, but I can never seem to get time away to actually have a holiday or maintain a real relationship. I took a break from punting last year when I was on the dating apps and had a few women on rotation, but found that way too time consuming and high maintenance.
Punting for me is easy, no strings attached, and the anticipation is very thrilling... Over the recent long weekends, there were two public holidays when I actually had 2 punts in one day.. one morning and one at night lol. I really have been indulging in this lifestyle but I know it's not healthy in the long run.. have actually been considering signing up to a sex addicts therapy group for a while lol. to be very honest.
 
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I’ve been there, although I wouldn’t be so crass as to boast about being a rich guy… so take note of that, it’s bad form. However, enjoy yourself, be addicted to life and fuck everyone else (literally, if that’s your thing). Remember, it’s only an addiction if you get caught and need to pretend to be contrite.

I think of it this way. Imagine you find the perfect girl, and she moves in with you. She fills all your sexy needs and does so for four years (unlikely). Happy times! She now owns half of everything you own. (Possibly she can lay claim to one of your bollocks). Think how expensive that would be.
 
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