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Building Rapport with Escorts

Building Rapport with Escorts
OGMomoTheCat

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I know some of you said it’s better to build a bit of chemistry with the escort to really enjoy the session. For me it’s usually just straight in, get the job done and out. How do you build that chemistry without getting emotionally attached?

I assumed some ph numbers are managed by their agents?
 
i think im just lucky cause i usually click when with them after a few mins after walking in.

Its not hard honestly, just dont treat them like some fuckable meat, then 5 mins of having a chat while sorting out paperwork is a good way to break the ice while talking about things you both like and don’t like & don’t be a dodgy cunt is all you need to do, it’s not hard to feel someone out and get the vibe that they’re weird

Oh and extra grooming to tidy yourself up usually helps at least for me. I get a full grooming done every week the day before my punting schedule so when you walk in your looking your best 😎
 
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Lately, I've been booking well-established independent escorts with good reviews and informative ad profiles. This usually means that prior comms are with the escort herself. A bit of light-hearted banter via text is a great start and I can then walk in her door confident and with a good idea what to expect.

As our friend noted above, how you present yourself is important. There's nothing wrong with 5-10 mins chat at the start, and I think most escorts will respond well to guys who treat them like a person, listen to their ground rules and show some polite interest in them. Doesn't need to be more than just asking how their day is going and offering a couple of compliments.

As for not getting emotionally attached ... just keep in mind this is the escorts' job, the aim is for an enjoyable adventure for two for a fixed period of time - they're not looking for new boyfriends or friends. And don't text them outside of making bookings. A bit of friendship might happen, but its best leave it up to them to initiate it if they wish to.
 
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Really it boils down to this:

Don't be an asshole.
Don't treat them like a convenient hole in which your pecker fits.
Talk to them, keep it light, unless the conversation naturally drifts in another direction.
Be responsive to conversation.
Smile, be someone that you would want to interact with.
Be the best version of yourself, bring your personality A game.

In other words, treat the escort the way that you should be initially treating everybody, with dignity and respect.
Because they are in fact people.
The rest they will take care of, as most of the people that are even somewhat successful as an SW are actually really good at building rapport in a very short space of time, their livelihood requires that skill.
So all you need to do is assist that effort.
 
How to build a rapport: Try yo make it as fun for her as it is for you. If she's willing, eat her out and finger her. Put in an effort to make her cum as well. I've heard plenty of girls say they find standard full service boring.

How to not get emotionally attached: Don't just keep going to the same girl over and over again. See many different girls. I'm not saying only book a girl once. Just book different girls so your thoughts don't linger on one specific girl for too long because that's how emotional attachments begin.
 
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if it’s working for you why change. Good advice above.

If you are friendly polite not nervous it helps them relax it’s easy to forget even though it’s their job still nerves meeting for the first time.

Things change and that good repport can turn to shit. Sometimes it makes sense other times none at all.

I think stick to what you’re doing.
 
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