Clients Catching Feelings

[timwalsh34]

please pipe up, our esteemed WGs -

how do you deal with clients who catch feelings ? how do you feel about that when it happens ?

why do you think they catch feelings ?

do you ever catch feelings for attractive clients ? is it the sex or the talking that causes it ? how do you deal with it ?

any thoughts on the broader topic welcome too

 

[shandadadi]

 

[Gorgeous_Georgia]

For me personally, I'm not bothered if a client catches feelings. Whether I continue seeing them depends on if they start pushing boundaries It can be really easy to catch feelings, it's our job to provide a fantasy that you'll like and combine that with sex and all the fun hormones that come with that it's ******* that some people end up liking their provider. I've had so many crushes on clients over the years and it's not just because they're attractive but I know a lot of sex workers haven't / don't. I just remind myself that even though we chat and cuddle and have some great sex, it doesn't mean I actually know them and that usually snaps me out of it x

 

[massagefan]

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This is exactly how I stop myself catching feelings for escorts too. I just enjoy the fantasy during the hour and book another session if it goes well, rather than thinking it is some sort of budding romance.

 

[60sGuy]

The oldest of the few escorts I see repeatedly is still 20+ years younger than me. Catching some feelings is normal, but all it takes to keep me sensible is a look at my grandad bod or my face in the mirror.

 

[timwalsh34]

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what emotional / physical attributes speak to you ?

 

[Gorgeous_Georgia]

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I'd rather not go too much into it on a public forum but a sense of humor similar to mine, someone that is kind, actually lives life and if I'm meeting them through a session then it helps if their hygiene is up to scratch