Well, that's not my experience. I have had lunch with two WGs and gave one after lunch an afternoon tour of a part of Auckland she had never seen. I have another similar outing coming up with another WG I see occasionally. I do this to remove them from their life for just a small period of time - to make them feel "normal" in a city and country that is strange to them. They're not my girlfriend, and I'm not their boyfriend. All of these excursions are with Asian girls who I know feel a little lonely here and a little unhappy. How do I know that? They tell me, because I guess they trust me. Getting closer to them makes for much better sexual experiences with them too. Trust me, they don't enjoy what they're doing. It's borne out of necessity. It actually makes me sad, and yes, I occasionally feel guilty. Treating them with "dates" makes my guilt go away somewhat, and they enjoy it too: A win win. I'm not their white knight; just a guy who has a lot of EQ.
I have a regular I've been seeing for about 2 years. We message each other daily. I see her every week, sometimes just to chat and see how her day has been. She tells me a lot about herself and her family. She hates doing what she's doing, but her personal life situation makes it necessary. She doesn't like me seeing other WGs and so I tell her I don't see any others. In five or so years, I have only ever asked three WGs if they enjoy their job, not me, just their job in general. They all said they do not. To me, that's not surprising. They sometimes open the door not knowing what's going to walk in, I was having this conversation with a WG just last week and asked her how she handled it if someone walked in she didn't like the look of. She said she would either say "Dolly not here now, just gone out, you come back later" and kick them out (despite the obvious protests - a reverse walk if you like) ) or take their money and do only 30 minutes with them, with said WG taking an extended shower so as to reduce the time, and then block their phone number so they would never return. Personally, I think a very, very small proportion of WGs enjoy what they do. I think some enjoy the regulars, once they get to know them, but aren't proud of what they do and would change in a heartbeat if they could.
No no noooo!
Ahh yes, Asian girls are a different story. A lot of them are probably happy to date the right client. I've had Asian working girls offer to make me lunch or go out to lunch or want to exchange contact details more than a few times. I was more referring to the Kiwi girls.
Yes agree 100%. I have done the same.
I wasn't entirely sure at the time.
Lol tryna imagine that is funny
I had that way back in the day in when I was about 20 when I first started punting. I had a regular and one time I booked her and she had an earlier client extended his booking with her and she agreed to it so it cut into my booking time and I was sitting there like a cuck waiting for her to finish fucking the first client so I could have his sloppy seconds. Ended up just going with a different instead. And my regular got really angry at the other girl when she found out later. And next time I saw her she was saying she was upset I "cheated" on her. Which was fucking weird, especially since she had a husband lol. I never saw her again after that, partly cause she fucked me over with the booking and partly because I had become emotionally involved and realised it would never go anywhere. I've never done regulars since and that was about 20 years ago lol.
That sounds pretty dicey man. I hope you don't get your heart broken!
This has not been my experience. However, I'm realistic enough to realise all (heterosexual) relationships are transactional in some form or another.
