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I am new to this forum but not punting. I’m interested in your thoughts, from both fellow punters and SWs.

Are you put off from a booking or seeing a regular SW again if they reveal information and telling you about their mental health, medical issues they have, or can you block it out?

I have recently been asking myself this question. I have been in this situation with both newer and regular SW I have seen before. Maybe they feel comfortable with me and like revealing because of an open book personality and like sharing.

For context the ages are varied 18 - 20s, 30s, Knowing what they have revealed about mental health, medical conditions, lifestyle choices, I find myself asking am I contributing to their issues by seeing them. They are an adult and can make their own choices.

Perhaps I am over thinking this and should just enjoy the time knowing they are friendly and open toward me because I’m a respectful guy 🙂

I am interested to know if anyone else has had similar experiences and your thoughts on this and how you approach it. As a punter you are going into a session to have a good time and receive a good service. Do you like/dislike hearing revealing information? Do you engage in it? Do you offer your insights, or do you simply enjoy the booking and have mutual fun?

From a SWs point of view, if there is a good mutual vibe, do you find you are more inclined to let go and reveal tidbits or insights?
 
Not worried
If people want to talk about there lives or not its up to them. If the sex is good everything else falls into place.
How do approach it ? simply listen , do not agree or disagree as only hearing one side of the story and happily bang away .

Funnily enough have found ladies who say there ex is the biggest arsehole around etc sure now how to fuck.
 
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I can understand if a WG has a regular client she sees often, who is respectful, kind and they have great rapport, that she could get comfortable enough to share that stuff. You’d want to really read the room though, imagine bringing that stuff up at the wrong time lol. However, if one wanted to keep their work and private life separate, I think probably best to steer clear of any of that. Each to their own of course but WGs are selling a fantasy, I believe the client should be on cloud 9 for the whole session.

I just have the mama bear feels, want all my girls to be safe etc. (I’m not even a mum! just very protective of the team haha)
 
I think keeping things in the room is the safest way to go. I don't seek to discover close personal details of that nature, but at the same time have often been surprised at what some WG have divulged. It often raises my eyebrows when SW say that they're just as much mental health therapists as they are providers of physical services, with all that clients unload to them. Fair play in regards to those particular clients, but in my personal experience the complete opposite scenario applies when considering what some WG have chosen to volunteer to me about their own lives.

So long as it's not negatively impacting on a booking - and I can't recall a time that it has - then everyone's free to chat about whatever makes them comfortable and in a mood to bang.
 
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No need to worry about that babe. You are paying for their therapy sessions by going to see them 😄

If you are okay with it and it's not taking away from the quality of your booking then it should be fine. However, you are not paying to listen to them so you don't really have to either. That's not what you signed up for after all.

Personally, I like to keep my sessions light and help my clients escape their reality for a while unless they choose to dive in deep. that's completely up to them. Some do want to be seen and have a listening ear. I'm here for whatever they need in that moment xx
 
I think sometimes if they reveal too much about themselves it can ruin the fantasy a bit. Especially if what they reveal is different to how you imagine them. And might make me less inclined to see them again.

In terms of mental health and medical issues it might put me off. Depends what it is really. If I saw one and she started telling me about her struggles with depression I'd probably be out of there pretty quick.
 
I once booked a girl who started crying in our break between rounds. Went on about how mean her ex was to her and let me stay for more than an hour extra without additional charge (I clarified this at around the end of the time I booked). I knew it would be wild when she walked in sipping a bottle of champagne lol.

It was some of the best sex that I've ever experienced. It felt like she was fucking me because she knew he would hate it. She was one of the best looking girls that ive booked and looked even better as her makeup started to unravel (didn't need makeup, very gifted).

I would have returned but she charged more than $1k per hour and I didn't want to become a reg at that rate.
 
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Nah it was place at work ( escort site). When I met her said
“how's it going.”
She replied “quiet.”
I said “oh I tried to book you earlier but they said earliest was xpm”.
“What I’ve been here since y pm!”
Her hormones went up a gear and I was very sympathetic. Such a good punt.
 
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I’ve experienced this with repeat WGs and first time visit WGs. And it’s during the season not during the pillow talk or clean up time so it impacts the session. It would be weird to walk out of the session half baked. I must give off too much therapist vibes :ROFLMAO:

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@Lady_Lilly what an I missing here? Are you a WG and/or manageress of an agency? How do punters book you? lol
 
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I had one encounter with a WG who said while in missionary, she’s not into it as she had stopped her antidepressants recently. Starfish all the way and then just talked afterwards. I think she kept working for a few more weeks.

Then had another who told me she feels nothing due to the antidepressants ! 🤷 She was much better at faking it 🤦🏻
 
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100% @JohnnyPunter I even had the misfortune of seeing one of your not recommended from SB, (one of your reviews). I wish I found that review earlier lol. Without going into too much details, it was heading toward a squirt session, (so I thought at least). She said she needed to stop and go pee. I said “just let it go because you’re close to squirting”. Her: nah it’s really yellow and stinks.🤣🤮

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Some that have really disturbed me is when I found out their mental health issues meant that is why they work. They are an adult and do what they want, but at the same time they can’t control themselves, their impulses or consequences. One WG even said they put out repeated personal ads to a known website wanting any guy to fuck them asap. Now some guys would jump at that and not think twice but….
 
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