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[Discussion] Sugar Dating in Auckland

You are right it is a bit of a hassle. Its probably only worth it if you can host at your own place to cut out the accommodation costs. I've already encountered some scammers on there. A lot of the girls on there are looking for a "pay pig" sucker to pay them thousands of dollars for nothing. And I have seen some agency girls on there, there's a couple that I have even booked before 🤣

Its probably to much effort for me, but I guess I'll keep checking it out and see if I anything good comes from it since I've already blown the money on the membership fee.
 
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My go to was develop a really good opening message and fire it to any and all girls I liked the look of within 100 odd kms.

Most girls will only do hotel/motel/BnB for first meet, I found a FaceTime cleared up heaps of BS before the meet.

I also adhere to the pay play no pay. I ain’t paying shit to meet up with you unless we getting down.
 
Did you meet them to have coffee or whatever before you arranged the first meet or just meet them for the first time in person at the accommodation? LOL
 
How did you manage to pay for the seeking membership? I tried my regular CC once and it got declined, and googling it seems that was a common problem (they are blocked). And apparently prepaid cards may not work, but never really pushed on with it. May give it a go if I could get the membership working lol.
 
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I just signed up on both (seeking and sugardaddymeet) but only paid for the full membership on sugardaddymeet lol. I figured I'd try it first since it was cheaper. I've had some replies but no meet ups yet. Most the girls are pretty slow at replying they are probably juggling 30 dudes at the same time. One older single mother was messaging me wanting to date for real. WTF I didn't sign up for that. She must be desperate as to look for a relationship on a sugar daddy site. If I found her attractive I would have done it (casually). I'm still not sure about this sugar baby thing but have a few fishes nibbling at my bait. Also been a few younger ladies that were keen but I didn't even really find them attractive LOL. But I'll keep yoy guys updated.

But to answer your question it could be because your credit/debit card is not 3d secured. A lot of websites and payment applications require it now to prevent fruad during online transactions. Usually it means you have to confirm an transaction on your phone when you use your card online. Ask your bank to enable it on your card if it isn't already.
 
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I did a stint on suga D sites some years ago. Definitely the scammers. However I learnt quickly and managed to score 2 to 3 hot young chicks most weeks for a couple of years. Ended up doing 3sums a dozen times. I also got a ton of freebies. The beauty of the site is that basically everything is VIP service. The only thing I never revealed my real identity. Had an alias. Only met one or two dodgey girls out of roughly 3 to 4 hundred. Eventually got tired of it as had played out all my fantasies. Was a good experience and was worth it at the time. In a way I feel sorry for a lot of girls these days having to sell their bodies and some have no idea how to sell their body which is why you can get a deal if you know how to play the game. Probably more expensive now as I was doing it before COVID and the price hike of everything in Life. But if you got some money to burn and you look alright and know how to phuk with a decent tool....you can have many pleasureable moments..all comes with a risk though.
 
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Because I had video chats I met them outside an airBnB. Went upstairs had some vino and then into the good stuff. The admin of a coffee date to then organise a date for rooting seemed far too much work.

Honestly get a video chat in saved me heaps of time.

I’m pretty chill so most were happy to head to mine after the initial meet. Threw them an extra $50 for gas money and it was on.
 
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