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Honest question for clients

Honest question for clients
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ThiefInTheNight

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I am really curious about client perspectives on this.
When you think about your best and worst escort experiences over the years, what really made the difference?

How much of the experience do you think comes down to looks, and how much comes down to mindset, communication, vibe and how she shows up for the booking?

Do you see a good session as something the escort provides or more as something both parties shape together?
 
ThiefInTheNight said:
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Trust and a some honesty. Find a wee bit hustle endearing to much 🫤 Also trust brings some rawness to booking
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1 - Comms
2 - Vibe
3 - mindset theirs and mine
4 - looks (can’t always explain why I find a look hot)
5 - How they turn up to booking looks make up, clothing I don’t care. Attitude at the first greet massive to the experience
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Fucked if I know. I think our attitude at start and comms will impact experience either way. If they not comfortable or relaxed ain’t going to help.
 
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Good looks gets me in the door. Good sex and good personality gets me to keep coming back. I've had bookings with absolutely stunning women and we had zero sexual chemistry and didn't really have good banter in between rounds 1 and 2. Suffice to say, I didn't come back.
 
For me, it's looks initially, but it's the connection that makes me want to be a regular.

Have you ever thought someone was hot until they started speaking? You can't even picture them being smokin' before. In reverse, if you get on like kong, then they're more attractive than before. I like a provider to match the effort I put in, but it's a roll of the dice whether we gel or not.
 
I say it's 100% down to her energy and personality!
Doesn't matter how hot she is if she doesn't have a sex positive mindset
and isn't mentally adjusted to the work she is undertaking, then the experience becomes sour.
I know I am purchasing a service, but the best escorts make it feel like they are actually into
their job and into giving sex! They always wear a smile and are up beat!
They don't make you feel idk what's the word I'm looking for, but they don't make you feel
like it's a massive favour you are asking from them, where you have to grovel and beg
the other person for something in a humiliating way.

Ask and you shall receive is the vibe I want from an escort (ofc always within her limits)!

So far in my experience, only kiwi girls have given me that kind of energy!
 
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That's pretty much it... nothing worse than that feeling that WG is doing you a huge favor for you...

after all, what's being sold is an hour of illusion and pleasure... the plumber can arrive at my house in a bad mood as long as I fix the leak, *but a WG acting rudely and in a bad mood when the service offered points in another direction is not acceptable.

*This is taking into account that we, the clients, are doing our part, which has already been extensively discussed here: hygiene, respect, etc.
 
We are not stupid we can tell if a SW is enjoying it or not anything that depicts to me in my head she's not enjoying it is a no return for me.

Even when they constantly grab my nipples that tells me the SW just wants me to Cum fast and lets me know she's not enjoying it.
Hate it when they do that
 
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I think expecting every WG to truly ENJOY having sex with us is asking too much... it's their job, they see and are penetrated by various men every week... it's probably most ******* that they don't enjoy it that much most of the time... If you want the feeling of the girl being crazy about having sex with you, I recommend Tinder.
 
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The worst experiences are where the girl is not 'present' or does not at least try and provide a good service. Thankfully those occurrences are rare, and a once only...you never return.

The best experiences are generally those where you evolve a connection over time with a provider. You like each other, are attracted to each other, have some sort of emotional and intellectual connection. It is not love, or romance. But you enjoy your times together. She views you as one of her favourite regulars.

Looks and sexual chemistry play an important part. The initial attraction. But it is the bond you evolve that deepens the experience.

A good session is always one where both parties are enjoying themselves and mutually contributing to the experience.

Then again some punters just crave variety, so there is no one size fits all.
 
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MagicNite hit the nail on the head. The best bookings are always with girls that are genuinely into it. With that said, as a man and as a punter, it's on you to give as good as you receive. Sure you're the paying customer but you also pay the gym to be a member. You're not gonna get maximum benefits by not being proactive.

I recently had a booking where the girl started off very passive and laid back. Maybe because it was late in the afternoon and she possibly had other bookings before me. I ate her out and fingered her until she came. Like shivering and dripping came. Once that happened, it was like a switch turned on and she was the one initiating all the action. Telling me how she wanted me to bang her.
 
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🤣

I wasn't talking about beauty. But there's always a shoe for a tired foot in the winding corners of Tinder ;)

And a girl lacking in beauty but full of desire to be with you surpasses a beautiful starfish... by far.

The dangerous thing about punting is to forget how much better real life sex is, without time limit, real desire from both sides, etc...
 
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