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How to approach hygiene issues with Punters?

How to approach hygiene issues with Punters?
Sahara

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Hey guys and gals,

I'm keen to get some advice on how best to approach hygiene issues with a client.

I find this to be a sensitive topic and I struggle to discuss this with clients without dampening their mood.

Common issues we get is not washing well between cracks, privates, rolls and breath could alternate from not brushing teeth since morning to oh god something has died in there.. and if they don't already have a good daily hygiene routine then one shower or mouth wash isn't going to fix this (those ones are blocked instantly on my books).

So how would you want to be approached by this?
 
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I guess really with the whole hygiene thing you are going to get dirty clients and clean clients, just as there is dirty working girls and clean working girls.

Some working girls will sternly tell you to use the mouthwash and the soap before you head to the shower - or politely remind you to do so depending on their attitude. But I mean if there are guys out there that don't wash their cracks at home, chances are they wont be doing it in the agency shower.

Some of the Japanese working girls (who seem to be the most clean of sex workers) are so particular about hygiene they literally get in the shower with you and wash you, they clean your junk and sometimes even your crack. They also wash themselves in front of you as well. Often before the shower they pour out two cups of mouthwash and hand you one to use will using the other for their self. So maybe you could offer your clients a breath mint and take one at the same time so they see it is something part of the process rather than them being singled out for bad breath. If you get sick of taking breath mints all day you could just remove it when they aren't looking.
 
Ohh I love that! I wish I could wash the clients myself. That would be kind of sexy as well but having a small shower and being close to midget height means hair gets wet and i can't have that 😆

My East Asian clients are always so pristine. This is one of the reasons why I love them so much!

Great advice as always. Thanks Johnny xx
 
both times I've been to Salon 33 I've been given a thorough soapy wash by the girl. Most enjoyable.
Showers are in the room.
Can't remember if it included a cap of mouthwash.
 
Gotta say, I'm with Johnny on this-hygiene's a two-way street, and both sides need to give a damn.

The beauty of legal sex work in NZ is you've absolutely got the right to say "nah, not today mate" if someone turns up smelling like they've been fermenting in a gym bag. That's not rudeness-that's basic quality control.

Personally, I'm big on first impressions. If I rock up to see someone, I make sure I'm showered, fresh, trimmed, minty-and I wear socks without holes (the true mark of effort). Bad BO or dragon breath is one of those things you clock immediately, and once it's in the air, it's all you can think about.

I'm more of a "settle in, take a proper shower, and actually vibe" kinda guy. The shower isn't a chore-it's part of the ritual. Clean body, clean mind, etc. And hey, if there's some nice soap or a mint on offer, even better.

Johnny's idea of doing the mouthwash together is gold. Makes it feel like part of the fun instead of a subtle hygiene intervention. You could even spice it up-"cheers to fresh breath and questionable decisions" 😄

A few other ideas that might help without killing the mood:

Keep a little "freshen-up station" in plain sight-mouthwash, wipes, deodorant. Subtle cues, but effective.

A cheeky sign in the bathroom like: "Please wash your bits so we can get down to business without smelling them."

And honestly, if someone's a repeat offender… yeet them from your book. Hygiene isn't optional.

End of the day, I reckon what you get out of an experience depends on what you put into it. Show up clean, respectful, and ready-and chances are, you're walking out with a smile.
 
I think this subject and the shower thing at Debs has been discussed before. Essentially what was relayed was that they would have to increase the prices if they were going to upgrade the premise etc. But I guess if you are happy to pay more and want that luxury you can go to Perfect Touch. For anyone who hasn't been, the premises are very nice - big spacious showers in each of the rooms, fake fireplaces, the works. Still though, the girls there don't wash you.
 
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Yeah others will have better diplomatic face-to-face solutions, but being conflict/awkward moment averse I favour the sign option. Although I'd make it large and glaring rather than cheeky/subtle. I know many establishments already have these.
Similarly to the quoted poster I'm aghast at the idea of smelling funky to a WG, so always shower thoroughly and mouthwash before I get there and then do it all again once arrived. As has been discussed previously on AF and likely applies also here - 'cesspit' though some see it as - it's unlikely to be the doods reading and participating in these forums that need the reminder.
 
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It's definitely much better than just having a shower yourself. Especially if they give you a BJ which some do.

I actually have had kiwi euro working girls clean me in the shower in the old days. It was awesome playing with thier tits arse and pussy while they clean your dick with soap. This was back in the early-mid 2000s at Mustangs gentlemans club. But seems very rare these days.
 
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