How to maintain boundaries
Thanks! Will do so.
How to maintain boundaries
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Cool. Report back.
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If you have been precise with your language in this thread, and she ‘cancelled her shift’ - as opposed to cancelled your booking. Then I agree with Slippin Joey, that there’s likely another explanation for this.
However, it’s a fickle world out there in the industry. Recently on AF, someone posted regarding a FS provider they had seen four times over two months. He considered they had an excellent and, seemingly, genuine rapport. Yet his next attempted booking was met with a spurious excuse, and all subsequent attempts to book her proved unsuccessful.
Hope your story has a happier ending.
Hope one of my story intrigued your interest and made your day
She is currently on leave. Will try to make a booking once she returns and hopefully report back to you with good news.
I know the feeling it happened to me the first few times as well but like others have said see other sw I find looking at my bank account after a session is a good really check 
I certainly don’t mind the idea of regulars but for some reason I never been able to see the same lady more than twice I genuinely think it’s because there is so many options out there I end up trying them all and then if I want to see someone again they have left by then in fact there was one lady that I enjoy and I saw here twice she could talk but in the sheets she was good as well kinda disappointed when she disappeared but there is plenty of sw out there but I do regret not being able to see her 1 more time
I certainly don’t mind the idea of regulars but for some reason I never been able to see the same lady more than twice I genuinely think it’s because there is so many options out there I end up trying them all and then if I want to see someone again they have left by then in fact there was one lady that I enjoy and I saw here twice she could talk but in the sheets she was good as well kinda disappointed when she disappeared but there is plenty of sw out there but I do regret not being able to see her 1 more timeIt happens. I fell for sw at egs back in 2007 or 2008 . I could tell she liked me as she gave some extras. Any way we dated a bit which was super messy. Think I even saw another sw to piss her off which then I think I might had put a bun in the oven. She was a bit messed up. She ended up with a normal job in time but for some reason the manager would get in there...until age caught up with her and guys didn't look at it her. Dangerous getting involved with sw. Generally speaking a sw doesn't come from a financial stable household or upbringing. Often they have had some form of abuse previous, links to hard drugs and gangs, . I doubt many are highly educated or claim to be a studying. Like is she really studying hard and then sucking and fugging random dick. Surely the random dicks be on her mind alot.
Some sweeping generalization's in there. And maybe it is what you have encountered but certainly not my experience in Wellington amongst the majority on NZ native SW.
Not that sweeping. More realistic. But thanks for your opinion .
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Well did you lick it again ?
Be really careful mate, the sex industry isn't the place to find a girlfriend and fall in love, its most likely to end in a painful fail, sex workers generally have a tendency to fall back on their profession it's what they know, what they do and how they earn money, go down to your local NZPC and ask if you can have a talk with someone there you might get an eye opening different perspective of how you're seeing things. If you've got a sex worker mate with FWB benefits that works but it'll turn to shit if you get your feelings mixed up in it.
Will report to you shortly.
Thanks for your genuine advice sir!
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Thanks I will keep it in mind.
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Just go and have lots of other punts with other SW’s
I do see other SWers but she is the best. Can not stop thinking about her. She makes me so comfortable and communication we just click. Sex no need to say more.
For punting, there were numerous occasion where I have been B&S. Or the lady did not match with the photo, ladies claiming their age in there 20s but I can tell they are lot lot older. My go to regular, she is honest and genuine and super sexy
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Not to get too profound but a lot of people are looking for something, and will stay a while when they do.
The only good thing is that while the nicest of people you meet - whatever it is you like about them - will always at some point leave the industry ... there will always be others come along who you will connect with. Always.
Seeing other SWers gives you perspective and maybe a backup against the regular who eventually disappears.
