How to maintain boundaries
How to maintain boundaries
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In New Zealand Is it Possbile to date them and get into a relationship with them if you get lucky...YES
Is it possible to get them out of the job permanently and have them all to yourself forever...... NO
The reality Is these girls are not monogamous and in a wealthy country like new Zealand its not money that is driving them to do this work. Even though they will tell you otherwise
Is it possible to get them out of the job permanently and have them all to yourself forever...... NO
The reality Is these girls are not monogamous and in a wealthy country like new Zealand its not money that is driving them to do this work. Even though they will tell you otherwise
She is probably going out with Johnny Mac , who we hear is stunningly handsome , has ripling biceps , wash board abbs and a huge willie , so none of us would have a chance with her
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I have seen a lot of cuckholds dating and in relationships with these SWs in new zealand.
The desperation of the lonely men in this country never will stop to amaze me
some of the things I have seen or heard is mind blowing.
But yea I get it still better than a fat chick
They say 60% of male in new zealand is single and struggling to find a partner
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What have you heard thats mind blowing?
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Hey man, no kink shaming.
No way I dont want to get obsessive to the point where I drag her out from the industry.
She has her life its her life and choice is hers. She has her choice to do whatever career she wants.
Staying single is actually enjoyable.
If I had a partner I would get lazy and comfy.
Nah.. not yet
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The worst are those old cucks that date the older Asian sex workers. They wait at home all day twiddling their thumbs while their Asian sex worker lovers suck punters arseholes and recieve a dozen mouth bursts. Then when their wife finally gets home after a long day of escorting they french kiss.
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Never was a truer word spoken . You do have a chance just book a threesum with her and Sir Johnny. Everything on the menu 3 way rimming , snowballing , tea bagging etc don't be shy
My experience seeing Swers started all based on fun. But slowly got myself into this sinkhole where I was getting my personal feelings mixed into it involuntary. The word limerence describes this perfectly.
I think I am going to take a break from this until I grab my shit together and not fall into limerence where I make SWers uncomfortable.
I will go find myself in stable mental state and will know I will not fall into the trap again before I head out and have fun with amazing ladies across NZ again.
bye.
I think I am going to take a break from this until I grab my shit together and not fall into limerence where I make SWers uncomfortable.
I will go find myself in stable mental state and will know I will not fall into the trap again before I head out and have fun with amazing ladies across NZ again.
bye.
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Don't be hard on yourself and all the best.
Thanks
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Another harsh one that brought me back to reality. I'm laying on the bed with her after a 90 minute session where we were only meant to talk and cuddle, but she gives me a handy. I've been seeing her for more than a year. Handy cost nothing. Then her phone rings. It's a punter. She's telling him where the house is etc, cost, what service he wants etc. Then she looks at me and says "you have to go". I get dressed, and as I'm leaving the punter is pulling up in his car. Reality Check. It hurt. But it's necessary.
On the flip side...
I had a cheap n cheerful punt one day when i was feeling particularly flamboyant.
It went well. Really well. A great time. I excelled myself, if I do say so.
Next thing I'm getting regular flirty texts, asking me this n that, 'longing for the next booking', etc.
I was happy to flirt back, no biggie. Then one evening, I suspect after a few vino's, I got a string of texts from her, confessing her feelings for me, asking me on a date.
Working girls are human too, they also have feelings, desires.
I had a cheap n cheerful punt one day when i was feeling particularly flamboyant.
It went well. Really well. A great time. I excelled myself, if I do say so.
Next thing I'm getting regular flirty texts, asking me this n that, 'longing for the next booking', etc.
I was happy to flirt back, no biggie. Then one evening, I suspect after a few vino's, I got a string of texts from her, confessing her feelings for me, asking me on a date.
Working girls are human too, they also have feelings, desires.
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So what happened did you go on the date?
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This is my first time seeing this thread, and I found it both moving and a beautiful glimpse into the quiet romanticism many men carry. Since it has been over four months, I am curious—how do you feel now @gwenkm9? Has time softened the pain of ‘losing’ her? I am assuming you have not seen her again since then.
Easy hack: never see a girl more than twice in a six month - twelve month period (or ever). Book other girls in her brothel (if she works in one) after seeing her. Have fun. Bang lots of girls. Life is short
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I used to do that but theres just too much bad service and risk of money loss and can be a headache.
I just stick to regulars now unless I have none or feeling like something new
Much Happier and you always feel like you got your moneys worth when you walk out the door
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Yup better to just go To Thailand or phillipines and get a girlfriend than have to put up with that shit.
You know deep down they hate it While trying to support there girlfriend through there hoeing
Funny I once saw a older Kiwi man in his mid 60s and overweight wait outside the room of a young attractive Asian SW he was her boyfriend (she was probably using him for a visa)
I still dont know how he managed to get such a young hot girl. When I walked in the room to bang her he had such a pissed off look on his face you could tell he did not want her doing the job at all and was trying to get her out the job.
Anyway have not seen the girl working for a while so I guess the guy actually got her out the Job.
But you know how it is she will be back again soon enough
