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How will future girlfriends react?

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Yeah a lot more acceptance in NZ these days. More likely to be hypocritical religious people or Americans doing the judging.

I too had an ex (a Christian BTW) who when I told her I'd lost my virginity to a SWer, a few days later expressed her desire for us to visit a SWer and have a threesome.
 
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My attitude is with basically every other skill we learn in life we first learn from a professional before we go out into the big wide world (a teacher, a driving instructor etc) or we do an easy version first (trainer wheels on bikes). I am not sure why people treat sex differently.

A good sex worker is a practical sex teacher for young men.
 
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The topic never came up again and I never brought it up because I didn't want her to think I was too keen. Might have been a mistake. Maybe I should have. Maybe she thought I wasn't keen. But we weren't together that long and her young kids (who had a deadbeat father) were always around. Rarely were we able to go anywhere on our own.

I did have some reluctance. Seemed like it would be awkward. I'd be wanting to focus on the SWer, not my Mrs. :LOL:
 
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I'd never mention it myself, unless I was deep into the relationship and the woman had demonstrated that she was free and open-minded enough to receive the news without viewing it as a negative. I think the female opinion of men who pay for sex being pathetic or seedy etc runs fairly broadly, even (or especially) among SW themselves!

Was seeing someone a while back who expressed revulsion when I told her I had been to the strippies during a stag do. Her reaction told me that it was best to withhold that I also got a lap dance, let alone having seen FS working girls. Had to quickly change tack and give the impression that I had been dragged along almost reluctantly as part of the crowd :LOL:
 
If she's offended by your past then she's not the right one for you 🤷‍♀️

I don't believe I can be in a long term loving relationship if my partner would not accept all of me. The good, the bad and the ugly.

We all want to feel accepted for who we are and your first sexual experience is a part of who you are regardless who it may be with.

Just slip it in into a casual conversation like it's no big deal. That's what I plan to do 🤣🤣
 
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