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BrothelSprout

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Normally a lurker but thought I’d add to the whore authored posts.

Sometimes it can be difficult to book an independent girl who manages her own phone, but there are small things which will make your request more likely to happen, such as being straightforward with your requests and time preferences. Um-ing and ah-ing and slow replies will often result in not getting your choice of time as we can be limited on room availability, and someone may take your ideal timeslot before you are 100% certain. With that being said, we understand you have your own life to plan around, but please bear in mind that we are here to make money so first in, first served. (Generally speaking)

Another thing that can help is making your messages stand out, leave a small description about yourself in your text, it can be vague but it’s more enticing and far less daunting to see someone if we know a little bit about what to expect. I’m sure you can imagine what it’s like having 20 messages asking when you’re available and feeling overwhelmed by which stranger to reply to.

You’d hope this goes without saying, but repeatedly texting “hi” with no other context will not yield results. Nor will lowballing as the first interaction. Aggressive followup messages are pointless in that respect as you will simply be blocked.

Manners matter and we love a gentleman.

Happy punting!
 
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My go to first message. ''Hi my name is Pete, 36 Kiwi. I saw your profile on NZGirls. You are very pretty and i would like to make a booking on Mon evening for 60mins GFE pls. Look forward to hearing from you.'' Works most times for me....
 
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Perfection.

Again, it depends on the work-style of the girl in question, but why this kind of text works is:

1) It shows the same professionalism as would be afforded to any other service provider, from doctors to hair dressers. It says you respect what we do and value it.

2) It shows where you saw my ad, which tells me where to focus my marketing and how much patience I should have for followup questions. If you've reached out via NZG, I expect you to know my rates, hours and extras. These aren't listed on The Apartment website, so if thats where you saw my ad I know to be ready for those questions.

3) Everything you want is in one text (and you can enquire about extras here too before confirming) If I'm short of time, it's super easy to text back with a confirmation, rather than getting caught in a back-and-forth which I might suddenly need to ignore out of necessity. I know sometimes you want it to feel more organic, and that's valid - but making that happen in the room is our half our job.

4) It has advanced notice. You can have just about any time you like with advanced notice. That's not always possible of course, because life is like that. But the more notice you can give us the more chance you have of getting your first choice. Likewise, "are you available in half an hour?" Is 100 times better than "available now?" Now is subjective and we'll still need you to give us a proper time.

Seriously none of you know how much we truly hate "available now?" texts. Ive seen it mean anything from 10 minutes to 2 hours - theres a whole booking between those times! Many of you are getting blocked on th basis alone - please give us an actual time or time range. We're trying to see you as much as you're trying to see us, but we're not superhuman, and there's only so much we can do to accommodate short notice. Please make it as easy as possible.
 
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