Just for your information, that really depends on the individual worker. Many of us actually keep to ourselves and don’t have friends within the industry, largely because things can become tense or competitive when you’re sharing the same market.
Personally, I would never disrespect my clients—or
our clients, I should say. The majority of my clients nowadays are wonderful people who respect me because of the high standards I set for myself and my work. If someone doesn’t treat me with respect, I politely decline their request or ask them to leave, and I won’t see them again. I’m not willing to see anyone who causes me harm or distress—it simply isn’t worth it. I deeply empathize with women who feel they have no choice but to tolerate such behavior, as I was once in that position myself.
It’s a misconception that women in this industry gossip about clients. Most of us absolutely do
not talk about our clients casually. The only time we might discuss a client is if they’ve been rude, abusive, or have endangered us in some way—that’s a matter of safety, and I think it’s important and valuable that we share such information to protect one another.
Perhaps the women you’ve encountered who talk about clients just haven’t matured in the industry yet or haven’t realized that gossiping doesn’t lead to real success. I can understand that in brothels, it might be more common for workers to talk among themselves because they spend so much time together and naturally form friendships. For them, talking about clients can sometimes be the only neutral topic they can discuss without getting too personal.
However, if you book an independent escort, it’s highly unlikely she’d be talking about you to anyone. Many independent workers don’t have close friends within the industry and instead keep their personal circles entirely separate—spending time with friends outside the business or with family. And obviously, this kind of work isn’t something we’d casually discuss with friends or family members.
Another Note: Another point I’d like to make is this: you might assume that sex workers talk behind clients’ backs with each other, but in reality, that’s exactly what many clients are doing on review websites. It’s ironic, because while people criticize workers for supposedly gossiping, clients are often the ones publicly discussing private details about girls online.
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