Is getting into the world of punting a good choice?

Is getting into the world of punting a good choice?
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NordicViking

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Hi, I've never posted here (or punted) before but I'm considering stepping into the world of punting. However, I'm not convinced that it would be beneficial or necessary for me to journey into this world. I'm sharing because I'm genuinely curious what people here might have to say to someone like me.

First of all, I'll say that I'm pro sex and I'm all for this industry being legal. I have a lot of respect for sex workers as people, the service they provide and have absolutely no negative judgement towards sex workers or the people who use their services. I'm definitely not a prude. I've had a lot of great sex in the past, both in relationships and casually. My sexual experiences have varied from loving, wild, crazy, fun and everything in between. When I think about everything I've experienced sexually, I can safely say that I've been satisfied with everything I've done and how it's all gone. I'm not left thinking I must do this or I must experience that. I'm content.

I've been single, by choice, for a long time and I have no desire to change this. I'm independent, value my freedom and enjoy having very few important responsibilities. I'm comfortable in my own mind with who I am. I don't feel lonely and I don't crave love or connection with other people, at least not in a romantic sense. It's been many years since I've had sex but I'm completely okay with this. I'm definitely not asexual. In fact, I think I have a high sex drive as I'm often getting turned on by women, but in these moments when I get turned on I find it easier and highly pleasurable, just to take care of myself. I realise this is not considered healthy, but I'm comfortable with it. I don't feel broken or as if I have something I need to fix, despite admitting that I'm probably addicted to this practice.

Being intimate with attractive women, who are skilled in the bedroom would no doubt be a lot of fun. The thought of it is appealing, more so for the sexual side of things rather than the connection side of things. Don't get me wrong, I like connecting with people, I'm down to cuddle and chat while sharing parts of myself and learning about someone else in the process. I'm not an arsehole who has no feelings or will disregard the feelings of others. I'm human and I like the idea of being with a beautiful escort and seeing her as another human making her way through this weird and wonderful journey we call life. However, what I've discovered through reading about people's experiences and motivations for seeing sex workers is that a lot of people do it because they are lonely or crave the intimacy and touch of another person. If I were to start punting that wouldn't be by motivation. My motivation would purely be because I'm a horny bastard and I want to see how much pleasure the woman and I can create in the moments we are together. I hope it would be a hedonistic activity for both of us.

While I can afford to spend a bit of money on punting, it isn't something I'd want to become addicted to. I fear because of my motivations that if I find the right escorts then it could be something that I love so much that I lose self-control and end up spending a lot of money. The conditions are right for that. Single guy with lots of freedom and no real responsibilities. Some disposable income and spare cash plus addictive and hedonistic tendencies. In saying that though, I am frugal and perhaps my love for not spending unnecessarily would be stronger than my sexual desires. I don't really want to put it to the test because my life could take a turn for the worst if I find out my love for punting is stronger than anything else.

I'm really just not sure. What's the point of spending hundreds of dollars each time to do something when I've successfully managed to satisfy myself for years and it costs me next to nothing? I'm not bored of doing what I'm doing and I've proven that it works for me long-term. It's sustainable and it's free. I get attracted by something, sexual thoughts pop in my mind. I sit with these thoughts until an appropriate time and then I take care of myself often edging and waving to make it highly pleasurable. Job done. Then I carry on with life and the cycle repeats. I feel no guilt, shame or any negative thoughts at all about my practices. I don't feel I need to validate myself or get validation from others by sleeping around so there's nothing really forcing me into the world of punting. It was just a random thought I had that it could be something I try.

So with that said, would getting into the world of punting be a good or bad choice for someone like me?

P.S I won't necessarily follow along with anything anyone has to say. I'll make up my own mind. I just wanted to share my story and I'm curious to hear what people think.
 
Entirely up to you. I expect there are a myriad of reasons for making a foray into the industry, including an obvious one you have omitted - curiosity.

Clearly, the latter applies to you, so maybe you should indulge yourself.
 
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I have an addictive personality. I've always managed - never dabbled in hard drugs. Used to smoke durries but quit (that was hard as hell)

Now punting dominates my life. Wish I never started.
 
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I think the chances of me becoming addicted are very slim. Now that I've sat with these thoughts for a while longer and weighed up a lot of pros/cons the main thing that's holding me back from taking the plunge is my own frugality. I'm glad I've moved past the fear of becoming addicted. I trust that becoming addicted won't happen because I believe my frugality is a stronger force than my sexual desires. This is good for me to know.

I hope that you are all good and your addictive tendencies are not too much of a struggle for you to manage.
 
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Yeah, I understand this. As I've just mentioned in my previous reply to Snz I think the main thing that's now holding me back from stepping into this world is my own frugality. Consider a scenario where a person gets into the habit of going down to the local pub for steak and chips every Sunday night. This is a routine they enjoy. The steak and chips taste good. Then the idea pops into their head that instead of going down to the local pub for steak and chips they will go to a fine dining restaurant to enjoy a 7 course degustation dinner. They know they will enjoy this fancy dinner, but they also enjoy their steak and chips. They can afford both (at least every so often) but since the steak and chips are considerably cheaper they opt to just stick with that.

This is the type of person I am and where I'm at right now. I don't think there's now much others can do to influence me one way or the other. It will purely be down to me to decide whether or not I want to spend money on something that I've always been happy to go without.
 
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I'm sorry to hear you wish you never started. I hope you are okay. I've dabbled in a lot of things that can be terribly addictive to a lot of people. Thankfully most of them came with negative repercussions which put me off them early enough that I never became completely hooked. I could see how easily it would've been for me to get addicted if those negative repercussions didn't occur and now I only struggle being addicted to one thing that I'd rather I wasn't addicted to.
 
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or worse! I might be proven wrong, but I haven't heard of many deathbed regrets wishing they hadn't fucked quite so many beautiful women...

If you've been servicing yourself as often as you claim I think you might be quite underwhelmed by the whole punting experience. Go for a hoon and get some first hand experience to balance out the philosophising.
 
My thoughts on punting -

I have no issues with women in my personal life. That said - I'm busy. Talking, making a woman comfortable and going on dates costs money + time. I worry that if I get into something long term I'll need an opting out agreement or meet someone with a similar standing in terms of personal wealth. That said - I still date and have a fuck buddy I see from time to time. I enjoy a wank as much as the next bloke but nothing like a slow luxurious blow job or the first time you get to slide into her.

I can get $300-400 out and go have a steamy hour long session with an absolute dime if I want. It requires a few texts and having a bit of street smarts about you to filter through the chaff. I prefer euro chicks in the 18-30 range and usually mid range price wise. I've gone for a few high end girls in my time and found absolutely no difference. I walk far more than I would like to with Asians due to all the BnS that goes on but few places around (940 dom) that have young hotties.

I think of it similar to cooking. I can cook a fucking good steak but it takes time and effort. I can also go to my local pub pay the $40 and not have to lift a finger. Unsure if that will make sense to you but that's how my mind sees it.

Either way bro - give it a crack. There is a saying that goes - On your deathbed you don't regret what you did do, you regret what you didn't do.

So go and do that hot little blonde on scortify or NZG.
 
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