Is getting into the world of punting a good choice?

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Yeah, I think I'm probably going to be underwhelmed too. I had a wank last night and fuck I'm good at it! Haha.

But you're right, the only way to know now is to give it a go. Either way I think I'll be happy. If I'm underwhelmed I'll just accept that it is what it is and be grateful I'll be able to save a few more of my pennies. If it meets or exceeds expectations I'll be pleasantly surprised to find a new fun activity that I don't mind spending a few dollars on.
 
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Cheers mate, I like the way you think and it all makes perfect sense to me!

It sounds like you have similar tastes to me so it's good to know $300-$400 is about the right amount to spend to find the sort of girl I'd like. I was kind of thinking along these lines already but good to have it confirmed from someone who has some experience.
 
Like all things, it's important to keep track of what you're spending. It's not a cheap past time, even if you're exclusively aiming for the lower end. It's a dollar amount you compare to your salary. How much of my paycheck is going to rent, how much is going to sex workers. I spend more on alcohol and dining, but that's maybe more an indictment on my general spending than anything else.

I think I'm like you, I have very little interest in romantic relationships. I'm no playboy, but the idea of settling down with wife and child is off putting to say the least. I find my love from life and from my community and I don't feel I need a committed relationship in order to feel complete. That doesn't mean that every now and then I don't crave some intimacy and sexual gratification which is where sex workers come in.

There's still a lot of stigma around sex work, and I've definitely met sex workers who straight up asked me if I had a partner, and rolled their eyes when I said "No, of course not." But as you said, it's a legal profession. A lot of the time these are businesses. Ones run by reputable members of our society like a certain member of the National Party. I think a key to ending that stigma is being open and honest with yourself, about what you want from your sex life. Sex work is profitable for a reason, more people than you might expect engage with it.

You'll have bad experiences and you'll have good experiences. If nothing else, that keeps me from spending too much money. I fully acknowledge when I make a booking with someone new that it might just be a rubbish time. That knowledge ensures I remain whacking off in front of my computer more often than not!
 
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