Is it rude to ask about mumtum?
Is it rude to ask about mumtum?
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Maybe instead of asking if they have one, ask if they have what you want? Flat, toned, washboard abs, no body fat, or however your fantasy requires.
Just has less of a negative connotation maybe?
If you turn up and they have been misleading then walk, pre warn them that will be what happens.
Just has less of a negative connotation maybe?
If you turn up and they have been misleading then walk, pre warn them that will be what happens.
Nothing wrong with mumtum!
I just don't like the idea of shagging some toddlers mom..and knowing she's going home to kiss her toddler with a mouth I was dicking. If I can reasonably avoid it I will try to.
When I hire and escort it's fantasy. Im doing it for me.
Well then you should probably ask for a provider with no children then.
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This is good advice. This principle applies to other parts of life too, not just punting. Framing things positively and clearly by what you actually want, rather than listing the things you don’t want.
I'm not qualified to answer, but I'd guess both yes *and* no. It doesn't seem rude to be up-front about what you want, but it might be taken poorly if the implication is that having children makes you unattractive (it doesn't). I get the feeling that it's hard for blokes to understand body image issues. So like @LaraX said, ask the right way and it should be ok.
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You like what you like. You shouldn't be forced to tip toe around it.
Its No different than it wouldn't be right to force someone to date a Tgirl who identifies as a "%100 woman", if they are grossed put by that
If old mate here is grossed out by mum tums, then he has every right to ask and avoid. All the power to him
Its No different than it wouldn't be right to force someone to date a Tgirl who identifies as a "%100 woman", if they are grossed put by that
If old mate here is grossed out by mum tums, then he has every right to ask and avoid. All the power to him
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I prefer to avoid mum tum myself. Usually I have a keen mum tum radar and can tell when photos have been edited or they are suspiciously obscuring their mid section.
If it's an agency that doesn't have photos as Lara suggests asking for a girl that hasn't had kids is a good idea. Usually if you opt for genuinely younger ladies there is less chance as well.
If it's an agency that doesn't have photos as Lara suggests asking for a girl that hasn't had kids is a good idea. Usually if you opt for genuinely younger ladies there is less chance as well.
Tbh I think you’d be ok to ask this question to agencies, just word it respectfully. Don’t go in from the onset with “G’day mate! I just wanna know, does *insert girls name here* have a mum tum? I don’t want her looking like she’s given birth to a whole litter. Cheers thanks”, like just keep it simple and as respectful as possible. You don’t want to see a girl who’s had children? Cool beans, in that case just ask “Hello, I’m interested in making a booking with *insert girls name here*. I just wanted to ask though before confirming, has she previously had children before and could you best describe what her physique is like in person? Thanks”.
HOWEVER if you texted that to me directly and not my agency then I’d tell you to go fuck yourself, not because I have a mum tum at all just to clarify. Because I don’t lmao. More so because it seems as if you’re automatically insinuating that I have this, which I find to be offensive. But then again each worker is different, I’m a combative mf at the best of times. Whilst others may be a lot more patient with your particular question and others will simply just not have the English reading comprehension skills necessary to understand that particular English phrase…
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That's definitely not the best way to frame it, like the ladies have said it's probably better to ask for your preference- toned, skinny etc, instead of phrasing it in a way that could be seen as quite disparaging. Even if they were to take the booking after that I think they would still probably think you're a bit rude and would most likely tailor their response, service and prices to match.
You might want to look into the Madonna-Whore complex, or as it's sometimes known: Psychic Impotence.
You might want to look into the Madonna-Whore complex, or as it's sometimes known: Psychic Impotence.
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You are happy to kiss her mouth that a few others have been dicking.
I guess I made it too obvious.
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Newer implants resemble and feel like real boobs when done well. Real ones hang different and have imperfections like asymmetry and slightly uneven size. Very rare but some girls have perfect real boobs.
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A lot of the girls profile pics are really filtered sucks but is standard procedure sadly. If you get a girl over 30 there's a high chance she may have some sort of mum tum most women do have kids so just shop according. It's like J.P said you get a radar .some of these woman that work in the sex work industry are cool as ive always respected them and if you do they give orsome sex back .I get it we spend a lot of money on these girls so if you turn up and it's nothing like what you expected it's a big turnoff just leave them a tip and walk or just do go through with it and shop better nex time.
I think it's cool when providers can talk about their mini-me. Kinda normalises sex-work as a profession too when it's compatible with family life. But then my regulars don't even do DFK, much less BBBJ, so the kissing the kids to bed at night with the same mouth doesn't wash in that case. I'd be more grossed out if they'd been eating kina!
